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For a few weeks, me and this girl were texting each other almost every day!. She originally initiated the first text message, and we started talking a lot!. Since then we have hung out a few times, and its gone very well!.

The last time we hung out, it went pretty good!. We spent the whole time together, away from every one, even though we were with a big group!. It was almost as if, every where I went, she went!. And we just talked all night!.

I text her the next day, and she never responds!. So I figured I would give her some time!. I wait about 2 days, and text her again, and she responds!. And her answers are kinda shorter then usual!.

Well to end the conversation I just say that I'll talk to later (bc it seemed like she didnt want to any more)!. And she responds with, "Ill talk to you later!." Which she usually never does that!.

Everything went REALLY well the last time we hung out!. And the night ended well too!.

Why did she avoid my message!? and should I just leave her alone!? I dont want to stalk the girl to the point she is uncomfortable!. So i havnt text her since!.

Will she text me back!?

im going crazy please help!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
First off, not a girl, but I can help you!. Second of all, what does this have to do with books and authors!?
So you think that she is avoiding you because she is not being forward in her text!?
Take it from me, some girls find writing to each other, weather it be letters emails or even text can be bitterly romantic while other girls seem to find it as a way of hiding behind your feelings!. The girl you are talking about seems to be in the second category!. Don't fret; there is a simple solution to this!. Talk to her on text, email her all you want, but don't get personal!. She doesn't want you getting personal unless you’re face to face!. I used to be in a similar situation and although I won't go into details, it didn't work out only because she thought I was hiding behind my writings!. Girls sometimes don't understand that no matter how you are talking to a girl seriously whether it is face to face or just in words!. I don't think it matters whether you talk in words or writing, as long as you get serious when you need to, but they don't seem to see it that way!.
Hope this helps,
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well i don't really know her, so i could be mistaken, but in a general sense it sounds like she was just preoccupied with something at the time you were texting her!. but it is possible that she could be avoiding your messages on purpose, but like i said, i don't know her so i couldn't imagine why!. try texting her and if she doesn't respond then don't text her again and just be content to hang out with her in person, which i don't think would be a problem if it is going as well as you say it is, and wait for her to text you first to start a conversationWww@QuestionHome@Com