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Question: Do girls usually say this to each other (Women only)!?
I'm asking here because you guys give the best and smartest answers ^_^
Okay, yeah!. I'm a girl and apparently I don't know "Girl Code"!. LOL Sooo sad!. Anyway, the girl I like, well today at the end of lunch she was like, "I want to wait for you today!." (That's not what I'm asking about though) And today is usually the day that we walk seperately!. This got a huge smile on my face!. I was truly happy!. And then she said like randomly, "Nichole, I love you just the way you are!." Like, it took me by surprise!. But I managed to say, "I love you too!." And she was incredibly shocked!. She was like, "But I'm sooo weird!" And then I responded with, "That's what I love so much about you!." And then we walked together to class!.!.!.I really want to ask her over for this weekend!. Just the two of us!. I don't know how I'm going to pull this off since I'm friends with her older sister!.!.!.ugh!!! But hopefully, I'll manage!. That's if she even says yes!.
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Well, ask her over!. I wouldn't worry too much about the use of "love" just yet, I'd simply focus on hanging out with her one on one!. That's the only way you'll get to know her well enough to know what she meant!. I can't tell you anything about the sister situation, that kind of thing can be kind of weird, depending on the individuals, only you really know for sure!.

By the way, this reminds me of a few books I've read !. !. !.

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I always tell my friends i love them!. But its usually like, when they say something funny, and i'm just like "haha, i love you"Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well first off, you're totally in the wrong category!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It looks like your lucky!. I don't know how her sister fits into this, but she obviously loves you and you love her!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Why have you put this in Books and Authors instead of relationships!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Wait, wait!. Are you a lesbian!? Plus, maybe this should go to Singles and Dating category!.

EDIT: By "here," I thought you meant the whole of Yahoo! Answers, not just Books and Authors alone!. Follow Community Guidelines by placing this in the right category!. We give answers regarding books and authors!. You'll find over at Relationships that the people there are smart, too!.

How about telling your older sister how you feel about the girl!? She might be able to help you out!. Maybe you can just ask this girl that you'd like to hang out with her, just casually, you know!? Like girls when they want to go on a shopping trip!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah, this is the wrong category for that question!. You gotta watch Yahoo b/c sometimes it focuses on the wrong words in your question and you gotta change the category!. I rarely tell anyone beyond family and significant others the L-word, but sometimes I say it to friends or when I'm joking!. Mainly I'm wondering whether or not you know which team she's batting for!. B/c if she's not into girls, you'd be wasting your time!. If you know she is, then I say go for it! :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'm a girl (woman) and I've never had a conversation like that, but I suppose it's not uncommon!.

My concern for you is whether the girl you like:
a) Takes 'love' to mean the same thing you do!. So many people these days bandy around words like love and hate without any sense of their full meaning!. You have to deduce whether she means 'like', 'like as a friend', 'like as a (romantic) girlfriend', or 'love (romantically)', and also clarify what you mean yourself when you say 'love';
b) Knows your sexual orientation and your intentions with regards to her!. I'd hate for there to be an awkward misunderstanding!.
You may have already ascertained the relevant information, but I'm just going on what you've supplied!.

also, you've realised things may become awkward between you and the girl's sister, if you pursue a relationship!. Think about the likely consequences of your actions before you decide what you want to do!.

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