Edward & Bella's relationship: Twilight Series?

Question: Edward & Bella's relationship: Twilight Series!?

Don't get me wrong I love twilight, but there are times when I feel that Edward & Bella's relationship slightly disturbing!. Like he can be way too controlling, and she doesn't think she's good enough for him!. I feel they are a little too obsessed w/ each other!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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It is kinda weird, how obsessively they love each other!. But maybe that's just the one way in which Twilight is a traditional vampire romance--relationships in those are never healthy!. Besides, the danger might be part of what makes the Twilight books so alluring--the edge of wrongness just makes Edward and Bella's relationship more exciting!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I do agree, i LOVE the series and the characters very much but i think Bella is mainly the obsessive one!.
Edward can kill her with a twitch of his finger, and he knows about all the dangers in the world that can easily kill her, so i understand why he's over protective!. and he has a bit of an anger management problem, but hey no ones perfect, not even Edward Cullen!.

But bellla, does seem a bit obsessed with Edward!. i dont find it disturbing, just something that she should think about!. she loves him and he her so i think its okay!. she just loves him that much, a kind of love most people will never experience!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

They're obsesses with each other only because they are in love!.Edward doesn't think he's good enough for Bella because he wants her to have a happy and healthy human life, and he doesn't think she'll have that with him since he's a vampire!.
Bella doesn't think shes good enough for Edward because he is completely flawless, and is madly in love with her, and she is soo happy by the fact that he loves her!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well when you read the book thats the way Stephenie Myer has it come across right!? They are obsessed with each other but when you think about it, it's basically like any other teenage relationship, you think there the one - you become obsessed with them and then when you do break up with them it feels like the end of the world!. Overall it's basically just being truthfull about teenage relationships!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yep, I agree with you
Don't get me wrong I love the Twilight series but Bella and Edward conversations are always the same about how she thinks shes not good enough and he says hes no strong enough!. I love the conversations but there getting a bit boring I can understand why the series is coming to an end!.
and yes he is really controlling but sweet, I just wish Bella was a bit more sassy!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

i thinks so too!! i dont think edward is that obssesive (well he does watch her every move and stands next to her while she sleeps) ok maybe edward is a little obssesive!.

bella, on the other hand, is soooo annoying!. i'm happy that she makes edward happy but she is such a whiner!. she whines about how he does this and how he does that!. how she is not good enough for him and how he will leave her soon!. omg, he's there isnt he!?!? make the moments last if he will leave her in the future (which i doubt he ever will)Www@QuestionHome@Com

o know exactly what you mean!.!.!.they keep saying!.!.o i cant live without you!.!.!.but then they say!.!.im not good enough for you!.!.you shouldnt like me!.!.blah blah blah!.!.like it seems like they are always complaining about how they arent good enough for each other

WOOHOO GO TWILIGHT!!!.!.!.lolWww@QuestionHome@Com

You are very right!. He is very controlling and manipulative!. She is an insecure doormat who readily accepts it!. It is an abusive relationship!. Pax-CWww@QuestionHome@Com

That is why i think they are perfect for eachother!. They just care about eachother so much!.!.!. i don't think slightly disturbing, but i can kinda see what you mean!. But they are in love and wht more matters!? Right!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

You know, I sort of felt that way when I first read Twilight!. They do seem a tad!.!.!. obsessive, don't they!? Haha!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i dont think its bad its true love there soulmates theyll do anything for each other even dieWww@QuestionHome@Com

Well, I'm the kind of guy who is all about love, so I liked that!. Although at times it seemed to get a little repetitive!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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