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Question: Does anyone else have unrealistic expectations of men since reading Twilight!?
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I think unrealistic expectations of men is how characters like Edward and Jacob were created!. I'm sure that Stephenie Meyer's husband is great, and that's the standard for her male characters!. I personally have never met any guy like that who didn't have ulterior motives, and I'm happily married to a man I love very much and who acts nothing like any of the men in the Twilight series!. After reading it though, yes, I did have slightly unrealistic expectations of him for a short time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

after reading the other responses, i feel that i need to say this!.

i like the fact that he is trying to do good in the world, even though he was delt a devilish hand in "life" and that to me is hundred times more hot!.!.

when i read that chapter about why he wanted to be a better person, that he didnt want to be a monster, i literally cried!.

and that in itself has changed MY expectations!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Honestly, I've never found myself as enamoured of Edward as any of my other friends!. Maybe it's because my boyfriend is amazing =D, or maybe it's just because I'm a very pessimistic and down to earth person sometimes!. I see that there is a divide between fiction and non-fiction, and when a character is far too perfect to be anywhere near reality, I find myself more annoyed than anything!. It's hard to describe!. Sure, Edward doesn't always say or do the perfect thing but he still seems!.!.!.!.a little too far off, and not just because he's a vampire!. =D

I know!.!.!.that made no sense!. The books are great, the characters are wonderful, but I don't expect anyone to be like that and honestly, now that I think further into it, I don't think it would be as great as it may seem to be in love with someone like Edward!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

HECK YEAH!!!!
!.!.!.At first,
I read Twilight and New Moon and wish (but KNEW I wouldnt) I had a guy like that!.!.!.
HIGH standards, handsome, romantic, EVERYTHING!!
Till I met my boyfriend I've been with and dated for 7 months!
While reading Eclipse Everything about Edward reminds me of something my boyfriend has done or would do!
Thank GOODNESS!!!
(I feel the pain cause guys like that are RARE)
Most guys suck dont they!?!?
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yes! now i only want a guy who can do for me what edward did for bella (maybe besides the whole almost getting killed thing) and i want someone as gorgous and i dont even know the word for the last thing i want!. its something like exotic only not!.!.!.i dont think there is a word for it!. but yeah my expectations have REALLY changedWww@QuestionHome@Com

Not so much!. The one thing that I kept thinking about while I was reading the Twilight books is my own husband!. I felt the books described our relationship perfectly!. Aside from not being a vampire he is truley my Edward and I am his Bella!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Of course, how can you not!? I mean, the vampires in the book are amazing, so sweet, and kind, not to mention gorgeous!. Vampires are like soooooo HOTT!!!!!!!!!!!! I am totally in love with them, how can you help it!? You can't they are just tooo perfect!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. I expect all the men to be extremely beautiful, and him to love me till I die!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yeah it makes finding the "right guy" a million times harder, because they are no Edward Cullen and unfortunately do not sparkle in the sun =/Www@QuestionHome@Com

DUH! i dont expect them to be vampires or anything!. but they have to be polite, gentlemanly, and just Edward-ish!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yep!. nobody meets my standards!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

umm yeah!.!.!.!. vampires are SOOOO hott!Www@QuestionHome@Com

HaHaHa!!!
No, but i totally understand why you say that!!!!

Edward Cullen (his sister):: thanks for clearing that up!Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

if you mean to i expect my men to be vampires!.!.!.!. then no!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

YES!!!! everytime i get asked what a perfect guy for me would be i immediately say Edward!!!! TEAM EDWARD!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com