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Position:Home>Visual Arts> How do you create your own style?Question: How do you create your own style!? Is there any way that I can create my own style!? Because I need to make my own style for school and I am failing!. I want to overpower the popular girls and get all the guys to like me!. What should I do and still keep my friends!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I found this cool quote online today: "'Even in literature and art, no man who bothers about originality will ever be original: whereas if you simply try to tell the truth (without caring twopence how often it has been told before) you will, nine times out of ten, become original without ever having noticed it!.'" -C!.S Lewis I'm not sure if you're talking about style as in clothing style, or what people would call artistic style!. But, perhaps this can apply to both in equal measure!. ^^ Perhaps not!.!. Anyhow, you can never control others, so I think you would experience a sense of depowerment should you attempt to "overpower the popular girls"!. In the same way, you can never control a person's feelings (they are theirs and theirs only), so to act a certain way to get someone to like you is pointless and damaging to your well-being!. Besides, it is more rewarding and it will make you feel better (than other behaviors) if you are liked and your company enjoyed when you are being who-you-really-are!. Then you can have freedom, when you're not worried of damaging the image of you that you have created!. And your relationships will be more genuine, and because of that "the good times will roll"!. Being popular for popularity's sake is not a very good goal in my view!.!.!. But perhaps if you trust yourself, and feel good all the time, and you feel good for being you, then you can attract people who are as light-hearted and self-reliant as you are!. If you're a happy person and others perceive you as a natural person, then the people's attention that you want (and the people's attention who you think you want, according to your physical mind standard, might not be best after all) will come to you!. (Try to have a fresh and open mind to each new person who comes to you) It might not manifest right away, but for now focus on feeling good (being kind to you)!. Attempt to find statements of thought that cause the feeling of relief in your mind!. 'kay!? Www@QuestionHome@Com No!. Don't just wear what appeals to you!. Because what if what appeals to you is already a trend!? Who cares about creating a style!? Chances are that no matter what you do that you think is original, it has already been done!. Just do what is comfortable!. There is no such thing as original anymore!. Www@QuestionHome@Com Try not to think about trends!. Try not ti find out what they are!. Go shopping, and pick whatever you like off the rack!. Mix and match until YOU like what you see!.!. If you are stuck on trends, head to the sale bins and stuff!. It is all the leftover, out of style, no one else wears it stuff!.Www@QuestionHome@Com Style is the preocupation of mental midgets!. Style is about following everyone else!. Why not just do as you please!? The most stylish peoiple I know don't give a hoot abiout what others think fo them!. Www@QuestionHome@Com just by being yourself you are being original, if people dont like it then too bad for them hahaha dont worry about what others think, as long as you feel good it should be ok =]Www@QuestionHome@Com Look at what people were wearing 10 years ago and 20 years ago and mix them up!. Shop only at thrift stores!. And then get your hair cut like a mix of old styles as well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com just be yourself!.!.!.!. if people don't like the real you then that is too bad for themWww@QuestionHome@Com wear what appeals to you & makes you feel goodWww@QuestionHome@Com |