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Question: Females 18+, what is the best way to approach you to ask you to pose nude!? Assume you do not know the asker!?
Is it;
Flattery
Money
Job offer (as in a career in modeling)
The asker's jaw drops to the floor when he sees you
Other - please specify!.
If you do not mind please include at least a rough estimate of your age as I would like to see if there is a difference related to age!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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i take nude pics all the time and being a girl asking for a girl to do it is sometimes ok and sometimes people think im a lesbian, you just need to ask, its fine art and some people dont see it for the beautiful thing it is, also showing some of your previous work could help, that it is the real deal and will be tastefullly done, plus there are many girls who want to take pretty pics for their boyfriends or even for themselves to feel better!.18 and trust me, people older sometimes do not understand until they see it for themselves!. my mom didnt approve until she saw them, then she thought they were beautiful!. good luckWww@QuestionHome@Com

I'm 21!.

If a guy asked me to pose nude for photography, I would probably be suspicious and maybe a little offended!.

If he only flattered me, I would either think he was a pervert just trying to get on my sweet side, or trying very hard!.

If I was offerend money right out, I'd probably just consider him a pervert and leave!. lol "I'll give you $50 for a nude photo of you!."

If I was offered a career in modeling, I would think it a scam!.

And the jaw drop would only seem a little immature and slightly creepy to me!.

Ya!.!.!.!. it's pretty much a hard thing to do!.

My suggestion: Print up some little business cards with your name, phone number, and a website that shows some of your nude work!. Give them the card right away and tell them everything short & sweet!. ("I'm looking for models for tasteful nude photography!. You would be a perfect candidate!. The pay would be ____!. Here's my website, please check it out or pass it on to someone you know who might be interested!. Thank you for listening!.") And then leave!. I think being obviously non-obtrusive will make girls more curious!. I would probably check out the website as soon as I got home and if I liked what I saw or thought I could do it myself, I might give you a call!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

There is no best way to approach me to ask me that!.
The best way is if there was a model from an agency or someone you know VERY well, otherwise I can't imagine the guy not having some injury by the end of the day!.
I'm 23 and have posed nude for my own photo!.(should add it was an arty pic and them some stupid funny ones that I annoyed someone with!)
I'd also think he was pervy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

im 25!. if a guy asked me to pose nude, i'd ask him if he could pose nude too, and then we could pose together and call it the dual nude posing team united!. but for that your camera needs a timer, because you cannot take pictures of yourself naked with your dual nude posing team without it!. trust me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Be perfectly honest about your intentions - a job offer would be nice!.!.!.

I've posed nude before!.!.!.but not for "tasteful photography"!.

HAHA!.

0:-)

I've been flattered, offered money, jobs, etc!. It really depends on my mood!. ^_^

Age = 19!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Just say, We are photographers and we photograph fashion and all different things, and from time to time we shoot models!. I don't know whether you are a model or not but I wonder if you'd be interested in that!.

Then I say, You perv!. or
How much do you pay!. or
You mean naked!? or !?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Art! + offer some money and show your portfolio!. also sign an agreement establishing the purpose of the photos!.
Age 28Www@QuestionHome@Com

I believe most of the time you will be called a perv and get your face slapped off!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Have a lady be with you will you ask girls to take nude pictures!. It helps my friendWww@QuestionHome@Com

Hehehehe!.!. I want to know the answer too!

http://conceptual-stock-photography!.blog!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you have never done nude photography before, my suggestion is to look up an escort!. They generally are very comfortable posing nude, and will gladly exchange time for a cd!. It would be great oppurtunity to build up your portfolio!.

also, post on craigslist if your area has one!. There are usually several photographers and amatuer models wanting to nude photography!.

I have posed for nude photography!. I was 22, and new several people who were into photography and it was fun!. I would do it again if I could find someone that wouldnt charge me!.
I am also looking for someone to pose nude for me!. I think most of the time, if you dont know the person the best way is to place an ad and let them reply to you!. If someone I didnt not know came up to me asking something like that, especially if they were a no name artist, I would think something fishy!.
It takes a special person to comfortable modeling nude!. They need to be comfortable with themselves nude!. And thats the problem I run into!. No one I know is comfortable with their body image while nude!. also, to make them more comfortable, offer for them to bring someone else along if they would like!. Some will, some wont!.

And then ofcourse, be completly professional during the shoot!. Keep your hormones in check and no flirting or anything like that!. If you feel your hormones getting out of check, either take a break by yourself, or call it a day!. You may actually want to mastrubate before you go into a nude shoot so that you arent thinking about that when you do the shoot!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

First you should have someone else with you!.
Second assure her that this is not some kind of pick up- that is going to be her first thought
third- arrange a time and date and allow her to bring along anyone she wants to
fourth- ladies if the is any inclination that something is not right or simply do not feel safe for whatever reason- DON"T DO IT!! Your instincts are probably right!
Fifth- Guys you have to get to know her and gain her trust and she has to know that you respect her not only as a model and a woman but as a lady!

Ladies- it is usually the model that pays the photographer! Don't fall for that trap- That's how Jeffery Dahmer lured his victims by offering to pay them to take their pictures!

Be careful out there!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Very interesting answerers from the ladies and from a few guys, so being a guy, and a older one who takes pics like this, I will toss my 2 ¢ in here!.!.!.!.!.!.

Have a business card with real names, Ph#'s and e-mail addys and/or web sites!. Always have a camera with you!. Always!.!. Hot shots can and will come up in and at some of the most crazy of places and times!. Treat ALL women like human beings and the ladies they are!.!.! Just because they DO pose nude, semi-nude, sexy or raunchy - is no reason in the world to diss em later or stiff them of what YOU may have offered (a CD of all work or whatever)!.!.!!

Ask if they would like to pose with another GF or even BF - a husband or just a friend!. The shoot CAN get mighty hot!. If they have a cell phone camera or digital on them, let then shoot you too, however THEY want!. Fair IS fair, but don't push it either!. It will creep them out!.!.! Offer lunch, sodas, and if old enuf drinks, but not to get anyone drunk!. REMEMBER, there are laws on age and getting people "drugged" (drinks or anything) and you my fellow photographer, could find your self in the Gray Bar Hotel with Bubba who has a box of chocolates and crotchless nylons for you to ware!.!.!.

Local wide open parks are good places to go!. Crazy stuff can happen out in the open but no one sees!.!.! It's amazing!.!.! Anyplace with people actually is a good place to get nice head and shoulder shots and it helps build trust!. Jumping right to skin too soon can again, creep things out!. However, the shoot will go where it will go and sometimes they take on a life and attitude of their own!. Go with it if it feels and looks good!. Don't press!.!.!

Compliment the women and be truthful about it!. Looks!. Hair!. Face!. Body!.!.!. as well as letting them know you know they be nervous!. Do NOT suggest they go to YOUR house, at least not at first!. Talk about what, when and where!.!.!. Let trust and nature take it's course!. I have wonderful shots just outside a corner store, around the side of the building in the parking lot!. Hot!.!.! Another time was in the parking lot of Home Depot!. You just never know!.!.!.!.

Here in Tucson we have some mighty wild bars and swinger hang-outs!. The Meet Rack, The Bashful Bandit and The Hide-a-Way are just 3!. Find yours in your area for every city has em!. Swingers are a crazy lot and if ya get in good with some, hell, you will be up to your ears in photo opportunities (as well as other perks too if your curious)!.!. Biker bars are a good place to find willing female models IF you ride a bike or have a hot car or truck!. By asking HIM, the gals partner, if a few shots would be OK on HIS bike or your vehicle, you may become a brother sooner than ya know and if you treat them right, you will be honored and treated right too!.!. We also have a nudest area called Tanque Verde Falls up in the mountains east of town and a place called Mira Vista!. If you have such, go to them!. Nudist are like swingers, for the most part, being their NOT shy about their body (or parts) and "posing"!.!. (been there, done that too)!.!. But here you must honor the rules and regs of the establishment!. Mira Vista is a nudist ranch, but Tanque Verde Falls is in the desert mountains and anything THERE is a go!.!.!

Offering to pay cash up front IS a way, but as said ladies, this IS a old trick and watch out if someone offers this to you!. Get HIS info and text it to a friend or something first!.!. The odds are good, he is, but it only takes 1 time to meet the creep and your either raped or dead!.!.!

So, how do I do it!.!.!? Every time is different but sometimes I just snap a few of a person to see what THEY do and often show them the pics on the preview screen, the rest is sometimes easy!. I may have my motorcycle and ask if they would like to set on it or stand by it!.!.!. Same with my 78 Land Cruiser, a big 4x4 truck!. Props help, a lot!.!. Sometimes I see you looking at me, ice broken!.!.! Sometimes MY GF might get into the action (then we gotta pull the shades sometimes!. She's freeky)!.!.!. ;-) There is no 1 way and a gazillion other ways to try this, but one thing I learned if you don't try, you never will do it!.!. If you think you can't!.!. Your right!.!.!!

Bob - TucsonWww@QuestionHome@Com