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Question: When did you become an adult!?
On Becoming an Adult
by C!.S!. Scotkin

I wanted to hide
from responsibility,
point fingers
blame gods, devils, people,
but I found my fingers
pointed back at me!.

Free will was predestined!.
I finally grew up!.



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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
I became an adult when I realized I was responsible for my own actions!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I became an adult when I accepted responsibility for myself, and became mature when I grew to the realization that though I had done so and would gladly extend myself to help others do likewise, that I could not do that for them!. I still struggle with that one from time to time, but that's okay, the other person seldom notices!.!.!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Good poem!. Meaning, story, emotion!.
I grew up when my sister got into drugs and my father and mother were crippled and i had to be the responsible one!. I had to get a job and keep my grades up and deal with the responsibility and pressure of my sister!. Hearing her cry in the dead of night and seeing her bloody wrists!.!.!.!.ugh!.!.!.i could never forget!.!.!.!.!.That is when i became and adult!. That is when i fully understood my self and my purposes in life!. I became and adult when pressure forced me to become mature!.




Life gives you twists and turns,
and no matter how much your heart yearns,
to change your path in destiny,
you must accept reality!.

when life present a different course,
you must feel no remorse,
while you soul bends and grows,
nobody knows,
you have become and adult!.

Hope i answered your question!
~DrummerchickWww@QuestionHome@Com

Honestly
I was changing diapers at age 4!.!. I was trying to get a job at age 9
I was paying my own way at 14 and I became a man at 21!.!. shux,, I still look like a girl!.!.!.!.
I had my first child when I was 24 I got married when I was 26 I got divorced when I was 46!.!. I am thinking I have not grown up and never will but and as the others said I have been an adult as far back as I can remember!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think you, C!.S!.Scotkin, will never be a grown up (in the sense of being a solid, serious citizen) since you delight in playing!.!.!.!.not with toys, but with words!

I am beginning to look forward with eager anticipation to each of your postings!.

(I think you might also make a very good writer of maxims as thoughts for the day!)Www@QuestionHome@Com

"The term "adult" is chronological!. One becomes an adult upon attaining legal age!. Becoming a "grown-up" is attaining the level of wisdom borne of personal responsibility!. I've met thousands of adults, but very few grown-ups!."-Laurie StocktonWww@QuestionHome@Com

Well I am Old --but honesty I am still working on growing up !
Perhaps on the day I leave this earth someone will say that I may have grown up !.
When I can make It through a day without hurting anyone, and have made things better for someone , I guess I consider that a grown up day !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I became an adult at the age of 4, and a child at the age of 21!. Growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Interesting philosophy -- we become adults at the moment we accept responsibility for our actions!? This is only step one!. The rest of what I have to say would require a tome!.
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I used to be an adult, but I'm ok now!.

http://www!.lyricsfreak!.com/tom+waits/i+d!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

And what is an adult!? Care to clarify!? lol Fingers do tend to get curvy after awhile!. Good one!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Can one grow up without having finished childhood!? 26 for life!!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't Know, Perhaps With the Dispensation of Magical Thinking!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

When i became a mother!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i was born a grown up
but i have yet to be an adultWww@QuestionHome@Com

I have it on my calendar for 12-20-2012!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

free will does not mean you are an adult!.!.!.!.!.!.!.or grown up!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com