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Question: Lust vs love!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Not sure if i am in Lust or Love!. Maybe you can help me decide!

I like this guy, he makes me want to move to holland, and gain experience, work there for a while, live with family and come back!. He makes me want to express my creativity!. I have been painting more, and written a few songs which are awesome!. I want to be a better person, so I know I can be the best girl for the guy!. I am currently looking for another job where i can help humanity ( i work for the bank right now, and it's way too corrupted, and he hates the bank too)!. i would not do if it weren't for him!. I dyed my hair bright red because i know it's his fav colour on a women!.

I also have crazy sexual fantasies about him, and he picks up on them, and always mentions some sort of clue of something i thought the day before!. I can't be passionate with my boyfriend unless i think of him!. I try thinking of my boyfriend, while i'm with with my bf, the thoughts of this other guy seem to bombard my brain pretty much all the time!. I can't be with him because he's my bf's friend!. I don't know what to do!. I think he does love me as much as i love him IS this love or am i just in lust!?

I also know i should break up with my bf, and find my own sort of hobbies and friends, and so i wont be so concentrated on his friend either!. I mean if it's love he'll come and be with me right!? and if it's lust then he wont!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
if I could figure that out, I might be able to help myself too!.
Is it love!?
maybe if you hung out with this guy for longer you could decide!.
If you have the choice perhaps you should try and see!.
I wish it could be that easy for me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Sound more like Lust!. everything you wrote has to do with you, thats always more of a sign of lust!.Www@QuestionHome@Com