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Question: A little insight!!! PLEASEEE!?
I am a 16 year old girl soon to be 17!.I hate my house ,my family overall my life!. I dropped out of school,so things are not really looking up for me!.I just want to go to a different state,city, or even town and start over!.!.get my GED and try to do something with my life!.Is that realistic for a 17 year old to do!.Sometimes you hear things about teens moving out there house and living by them self!.Is that even possible!?I don't see how!. I broke up with my *** hole of a boyfriend so staying with him isn't a option!.I'm just in a bind all together!.
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Well, let us see!. You do not have an education!. You could go for you GED now!. Although I do not see you having a well paying job to help you to pay for your bills by yourself with no experience!. And you are not talking about what all you would need to have!.
So, I would say finish up school, get ready for college and stop all of this until you know how to make it work!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
The road to success is not found by running away from the bad, but by running towards the good!. You seem to be burning bridges, school and family may not be fun now but getting through them will make life a million times better as you get older!.
I can't give you answers you want to hear, but remember that anger will screw up your head so you can't think clearly, so let go of all that before you make decisions, and do what is right for you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
G Try a little contriteness with your parents!. and see if they will take you back into school support!. If you go it on your own, you will not do well!. The universe is indifferent!. You have to make informed choices based on respect for the big reality, or it will bite!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Insight is always from self!. Have your own insight!. Ours may not fit your overall position!. You are your best judge!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
What you seek is beyond you, you want a world that is not yours!. But however consider it like any destination, when you arrive to where you wish to be!. Don't you always seek to go somewhere else!? It is much like the expression the grass is always greener on the other side, but nothing in life should sound so two sided!.
You want a better life; you dislike the world around you!. Well if the world in unfair to you, ask yourself are you fair to yourself!?
If you run away from the challenges of life to revoke responsibility, how could you manage to even hold on to something that is good if it crosses your path!? Fact is very little in life is under our control, the best we can do is understand ourselves better to control how we react to the world around us!. In most cases acts unfavorable to our own wishes!.
You are not blind in terms of the eyes for you see the difficulty of any choice you make!. But I will claim you are blind with your mind, for you don't see only you’re the one stopping yourself!. From prohibiting the family issues to bother you, to overcoming the grind of school life by getting your education completed no matter what the difficulty!.
Maybe when your 18 you can join the peacecorp for a year and see real suffering, people who need your help and you rise up to the responsibility that is required of you!. And maybe then you will possess the answers to the questions of your own life, but in the meantime I suggest you give school another chance!.
Other than that, get your GED and enlist in one of the branches of the military!. I am sure living in a country with all the conveniences of internet not at your disposal seem unappealing or signing your freedoms away!. But they will shape you to become a different person, for experiences have a tendency to do that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
There are only two people in this world who can think for you without being selfish and thats your parents!.
Remember you did not hate your parents when you were a toddler , did you!?
So what has changed that has caused this hatred to grow!.!. its naturally within you and only you can try and change this!
You might abuse me at this point in saying all this but i am pretty sure you would realize in life that we must love our parents!.
In the situation you are in the best advice would be to stick with your family and try and prove yourself that you are matured enough to emerge from this crisis without running away from it!.
Best of luck for your life !!Www@QuestionHome@Com