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Question: Have you ever pass the love of your life, and think you could get better one later!?
I just turned 37 and still single!. Though I still look like 30 and good looking, I am worried I am going to spend the rest of my life alone!. He was crazy about me in college, though I like him too, but at that time,I was stupid enough to think there was plenty of chances to meet somebody like him!. And so I went abroad to study and live for more than 10 years!. Recently, I moved back to my home country, and finally got back in touch with him!. He told me he tried hard to contact me many times but all the letters he sent to me were not deliverable!. Now, he is married with kids and very successful!. We all felt sad!. After all these years searching for Mr Right, I finally realized though he is not tall or handsome, he is the guy that was for me!. But we could do nothing to change what have happened!. My mother said this means we were not meant for each other!. But my heart aches so much!. Oh God, could I ever meet somebody like him again!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
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AH, the "Road Not Taken" - great Robert Frost!.
http://poetrypages!.lemon8!.nl/life/roadno!.!.!.
Everyone, and I mean everyone has looked back and wondered about the choices they made!. If they haven't they might should!.
However, there is not a thing you can do to change history!. There are thousands of things you can do to change the future!.
Look back to learn look forward to live!. Yes, there is a future, unless you stand totally in your past!. Move on - there is another, even better, around the next corner!Www@QuestionHome@Com
Every time I have been in love it was "this time for sure, this one forever", but after a while you realize its easy to fall, hard to land, and you are much better off with a good friend!.
There is no Mr/Ms right, It's in really giving love that makes us happy, some people make it easier to give love than others but in the end, its just the giving we need to be happy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
I don't know!. It wasn't your play!.
Keep living your life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Is it really the guy you ignored that you are missing, or just the tick of the clock that is driving you into fond remembrances!? If you actually "loved" him, you would be happy he is successful, married, and has children!. Instead you are more concerned for yourself!.
Learn to be happy as a single person, concentrate on God and doing His work!. Stop searching for "Mr!. Right" before you fall for "Mr!. Right Now" (again, perhaps)!.
If you fully devote yourself to the Lord; you will no longer be consumed with your "singleness" and you may find a man who is just as devoted to God, working along side you!. This man when he notices that you are on the same path he is, will move heaven and Earth to win you to himself!.
God really is the best one to ask!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
If he sent you letters and they never got 2 you, then your mum is right it was not meant to be for sure, i like you i completly get what you are saying and have gave me a heads up!. however living your life for you is the best thing you could of done, love never lasts and never will its over rated!. You are still young thats when people begin to have fun look at people like Jennifer Aniston she older and she still not 100% in love and it wont work out with John Mayer either, Just keep looking but dont forget to keep living life for yourself!Www@QuestionHome@Com