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Question: I made the biggest mistake of my life!?
So my girl and I are having problems, and sometimes she feels im with her because of sex!. Which is not true because I love her and would do anything for her, but yes i can a lil pervert once in a while!.
My girl and I were having problems one day, and she decided to test if i really love her, and she offer to be my friends with benefits where all my fantasies would be fullfilled!.!. and i agreed bcuz i got carried away!.!.my girl and i broke up!.!.and i love her a ton, and i know she loves me!.!.but what can i do to make anything right!? any suggestions to show her that i really do love her!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
call her and tell her you need to talk to you!.
tell her you love her, and how you feel about her!. let her know you ****** up
tell her you know you got carried away, and you really want to date her again, except this time, keep this relationship strictly non-sexual until she realizes you really do love her!.

let her know that until she's comfortable, you won't talk about, or do anything sexual!.
i've been in her situation before and i really respected my boyfriend for doing that!.

good luck! :DWww@QuestionHome@Com

She trapped you and you want her back!? Why would you want anything to do with someone who plays games with the one they profess to love!? Anyone who tests someone doesn't really love them!. I hate to say it, but the love in your relationship is all one sided!.

If you want her back, you have to start over!. Obviously there is nothing going on between you right now, so your relationship is at point zero on the compass!. Pretend you don't know her and sweep her off her feet all over again!. I hope for your sake she's learned her lessons as well as you did!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.tell her you will do with out sex and wait till she wants to!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You messed up!. It sounds like you were thinking as a hedonist!. Just be there for her without being a perv!. perhaps she will eventually forgive you!. She may never, and you have to be willing to accept that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com