Do u think we never stop loving we just move on...?!?

Question: Do u think we never stop loving we just move on!.!.!.!?!!?

when u split up from a relationship!.!.as life goes on u heal !.!.does the love die too!? i mean i moved on but even after 14 years i feel i have the same love inside for him !.!.howcome!? i have no contact and i dont even think of him!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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I love this question!. It's true!. Like, you don't still love the person in a romantic way, but a careing love as a mother has for her children!. Even though I no longer love any of my exes, out of 7 I've only really loved 2, and those are the two I'll love and care about forever!.

!.!.!.even though they're retards who waste their potential and don't have their heads on straight, nor do they seem to care!.

But yes, you are very right, my friend!.!. Very right!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I know how you feel!. When I get over a relationship it takes me a long time to let go!.!.!.and I feel like I have feelings for the guy for a long time!. After a long time though!.!.!.I do not feel the love is the same!. I just remember every once in a while!.!.!.especially when I feel lonely!.

I think the reason you feel that way is because you possibly have not found somebody else you love as much!. In that case you always keep longing for the 'love' you keep remembering!.

Past relationships with people that left and did not even keep in touch or stay friends are not worth remembering!.

I hope one day soon you find 'the love of your life' and are able to move on to somebody that is there for you now and in the future!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You could quite easily talking about my own situation!

Just to answer your queston: It all depends of how old you were, I think, at the time of your relationship and if it was the first real one you had!. It is funny because just last night we were talking about this!. We were listening to music from our past and he played some that I used to avidly enjoy because the boy in my life liked the music!. I finally realised that despite still liking the sounds, I did not enjoy the feelings that they gave! Another words - I have moved on!.

I first fell in love when I was 18 and thought that I would never be able to feel the same about any other man as this one chap just stayed within my heart; causing pain like nothing! Then I met my husband and for some year's after, still felt this deep yearning!. Now, my husband and I have been married for 17 years and I can honestly say, that my old love is just that - old! Actually I would like to meet up with him to see if he is married and children!. When I used to think this, it was a protection for myself if I did meet him and have to cope with the stabbing in my heart - now, it is just curiosity!. I deeply love my husband and it is a more powerful one than the first because it has stood to the test of time and we are growing together!.

If I were honest, I would have to say, that my first real love will always stay with me, but strange at it seems, my husband does have my whole heart now!Www@QuestionHome@Com

no offense, but if you say you feel the same love for him for the past 14 years, how can you say you don't think about him!?
love is a very powerful feeling, when you heal it only means you get over your bad times!. you're good times will remain with you and you have no reason to let them go!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

love moves in a mysterious ways

love is a many splendor thing

these two lines from familiar songs may have described your post!. and other similar 'loves' did that too, maybe in subtle ways!. yet they are within that grand spirit of "love"Www@QuestionHome@Com

love=respect, commitment, passion; ``same love`` = attraction, sexual attraction that, for my point of view, happens of each of us, every day, when we see a beautiful person!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The love is there, at the back of your mind and if the person you love somehow finds their way back into your life, all your memories resurface and you fall in love again!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

after 14 years he's probably forgotten he ever cared for you!.Grow up and move on!.Harsh but true!.Until you settled within your own self you cant fully give yourself to anyone else!. And that's even if you want to!Www@QuestionHome@Com

You're not really asking a question so much as expressing nostalgia!. Unless you feel there's a good chance you'll wind up back together, you'll probably be better off if you don't let yourself pine after him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Obviously, the "love" didn't die for you!. You want to keep the love, for whatever personal reasons!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I know love dies!. When the ending was long and painful, remembering that person no longer brings those connected feelings!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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!.!.!.still in love, nothing wrong to THINK of that memory of love!.!.!.
!.!.!.it was an experience that helped YOU to move on!.!.!.
!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com