I found the answer to happiness!!!?

Question: I found the answer to happiness!!!!?

I know a lot of you wont believe this!.!.!.but if you put this into practice, it will work!.!.!.You put God first!.!.!.if you don't believe in God put nature first!. Second, put EVERYONE before yourself!. Think of yourself and your problems last!. Third, be grateful for every little thing you have (food, water, shelter, family, etc!.!.!.) Following this method I am EXTREMELY happy! You notice the people who are not rich and will give the shirts off their back for anyone always have a smile on their face!?!?!? What do you guys think!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

Welcome to spirituality!. There are many techniques that are useful to keep it going and to keep growing!. I started by listening to my intuition!. Then I decided to spend the rest of my life helping people!. Then I found that a word change, basically dropping negative judgmental words for descriptive ones, along with some modest good fortune and I was so high I had to concentrate and come down to drive!. Words are powerful!. I try to keep it down a little as I find it works better for functioning in a negative world!. We are about 60% negative and therefore out of balance!. Science is now saying that creation has to be out of balance, so I trust we have to be at least 51% positive!. One person said that he found Mother Teresa's volunteers to be the happiest people on earth!. Hm!.
There's some things to watch out for!. Somehow, even mild negative thoughts built up unoticed for a week and a half to my deepest depression!. It lasted about three minutes!. When I stood up it disappeared and after coffee I was up again!. The second one was the second most deep and it disappeared after about 3 minutes also!. I just laugh at depression now!. It's so unreal and so a factor of negative thoughts!. I would think negative situations would have a negative affect also, so there are rules and techniques for maintenance and getting the spirit of truth!. That's my favorite thing!. lol Isn't truth stranger than fiction!? You could say it's all apparent contradictions, like by loving you receive the most love!. By trying to help others, I saw how much I needed to learn, and helped myself more!. I think it's that we get so out of balance, seeing only our own point of view or following the crowd, because the crowd is too negative!. It helps to stay around positive people, if they are also wise!.
Reality is best looked at in pairs for simplicity!. As an infinite collection of relationships!. Thinking is even said to be by comparing things!. Like a famous school of architecture that seemed trivial to me, caused a major breakthrough in sociology!. Some abstract questions can be answered by comparing the question to mundane things like!., life to surfing!. What is life!? Like surfing it's not about geting to the beach, It's about the ride!. So is life and so on!. The whole mind uses vision logic and checks it against linear reasoning!. The conscious mind can double check it's inspirations and revelations!. Everyone is breaking out of traditional boxes!. Some up to a higher consciousness and others to unconsciousness, as they dont use intuition to handle the complexity of reality; The intuition is literally a million times faster than the conscious mind!. I call it the subconscious and others call it the superconscious, but that is because it works with the whole mind!. If you persue all this, there are no end of rewards, techniques and skills you may find!. If the intuition doesn't know, or for some reason it doesn't seem to know the answer, it tells you where to find answers!. By intuition, I mean that still small voice, but even feelings and gut reactions can be useful, if you test them!. Emotional Intelligence and Cognitive Therapy will also help!.
Maybe you don't know what I am talking about or maybe this all resonates!. Excuse me for not being able to explain it better!. We all are seeing the same things from six billion different points of view, but it's all the same thing, mostly!. Ciao!. But you said it better!. I was only adding!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's easy to find happiness!. Maintaining happiness is much harder to do!.

If you're always putting others in front of you, sooner or later you're likely to be disillusioned by others taking advantage of you!. It's not easy to let someone else get in the cab before you if you have an urgent appointment that you're already late for!. If you don't, then stress is going to build up which causes unhappiness!.

also, it's only a generalisation that the rich are greedy and the poor are kind!. Are you yourself very poor and willing to happily give your shirt to other people, or are you more priviledged than that and romanticising poverty like many priviledged people do!? There are studies that show that rich people are generally happier, and happier people are often kinder to others because they're happy rather than bitter or struggling against life!. Most people in prison for serious crimes come from poorer economic backgrounds too, even though in western society noone needs to do crime because state welfare provides the minimum requirements to live!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

this may be a temporary cure to a down or an up from the equilibrium of your mood!. BUT!.
i believe true hapiness is to go up exponentially

lets say your mood is y= sin x
you may basically translate the graph up and reduce the amplitude

i personally believe in
maximizing my range of human emotion
i want to live/experience/be able to experience every point on that curve, even -1, -0!.99

enjoy every experience
dont make your range small(reducing your ability to experience emotion[being human])

unless you want to be mindless
which is alright tooWww@QuestionHome@Com

I'm pleased you found that but you must be aware that just because it works for you it doesn't mean it works for everyone!. Happiness doesn't obey to a formula nor is it a pure equation!. There are some variables that aren't measurable that come along the way,so it's hard to calculate - if not impossible,really!. But I'm really glad you feel that way!Www@QuestionHome@Com

This is very interesting!. I have done something similar raising myself up from depression and it did work!. One rule I have though is "Never do anything for anyone else that you won't do for yourself"!. It always leads to problems!.
I do believe that gratitude is the key to joy!.
By the way, I am very poor and live below the poverty level!. But I can always give!. To myself and to others!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Of course you are right!. But who has got the answer!? You say you have got the answer!.!.!.!. but where are you, what remains of you!?!.!.!.!.!. you have decimated yourself completely by placing yourself below all else!. However, yes, indeed that is the route to true and everlasting happiness!.!.!.!.!. decimate self completely!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Great, just what I need right now, an army of do-gooders more concerned about my problems than their own!.!.!.!.

Mind your own business you desperate happiness-hunting, self-fullfilling, egocentric humanitarian mob!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. You have opened the secret and revealed!. Thanks!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I agree 100 percent BUT others find happiness in what they believe to make them happy!. We who believe in GOD shouldn't inject our faith on others unless they ask!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

read about jewish tradition!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

For God's sake don't tell everyone or they will ruin It!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Ignorance is bliss!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

good luckWww@QuestionHome@Com