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Question: What attributes constitute being deemed a good person!?
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Selflessness - because this allows you to work together with other individuals to better society (making you a good person)

A common morality - meaning that you have morals similar to the people in your current society!. This would constitute being a good person!. But I do not believe 'good' is universal, so this morality would vary depending on the culture it is immersed in!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Ha ha, absolutly fasinating!.
I think the specifics change over time!. Most of the historical people cast as good have become icons and that is one step away from being a myth, so the minor attributes are seldom known facts, and the process of glorifying evolves with the perspective of each generation!.

In general I would just say that an intentional actions that result in the physical well being or mental peace of others, resulting in gain, happiness and life of another person could cause one to be deemed as good!. Since it is a general principal I am looking at, I have left out the usual list of gradititudes, but other answerer's will cover many of them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

moral characteristics

1 !. Being Honest, Truthful, Trustworthy— is frank and open, refraining from lying, stealing, or
cheating
2!. Having Integrity— is principled—being of sound moral character, showing courage of convictions, standing up for what is
right!.
3!. Being Caring/ Compassionate/ Benevolent—shows good will, generosity; charitable, considerate, kind!.
4!. Doing One’s Civic Duty—abides by the laws and rules; does fair share; participates in community betterment!.
5!. Having Courage—does what is right, even in the face of personal consequences, rejection by others, or danger!.
6!. Being Willing to Sacrifice—gives of oneself or one's possessions to help others or for something one believes in!.
7!. Maintaining Self-Control— is able to stay calm and rational, even under conditions of temptation, stress, or aggravated assault (such as being teased or "put down') by others!.

8!. Being just and Fair—treats others as you would want them to treat you; rules applied equitably; does not discriminate on improper basis!.

9!. Being Cooperative—gets along well with others, willing to compromise; committed to the concept of neighborhood, society, country, and world!.

10!. Being Persevering/ Diligent—puts out best effort and works hard; does not give up easily; keeps trying despite hardships; self?reliant!.

11!. Keeping Promises— attempts to keep commitments, reliable, dependable!.

12!. Doing no harm—considers the potential for physical or emotional harm to others and avoids that harm!.

13!. Pursuing excellence/ takes pride in work—does one's best; is not unduly influenced by setbacks or external pressures to do less than one can!.

14!. Taking personal responsibility—is accountable, dependable, amenable; considers consequences and accepts responsibility for own actions or inactions; does not shift blame for own mistakes to others!.

15!. Having Empathy —is able to identify with another's feelings or point of view in order to better understand him/her!.

16!. Benefiting others —makes decisions that have the potential for a positive effect on others!.

17!. Having Respect for others —Acknowledges and honors the rights, freedom, and dignity of others!.

18!. Having Patience ?- knows that good products, actions and outcomes take time; can delay gratification; does not leap before looking!.

19!. Being Forgiving -- is able to leave upsetting and hurtful things behind; stops the cycle of the hurt to others or oneself; does not seek revenge!.

20!. Making Peace ?- is able to compromise, to talk things out without resorting to violence, to seek solutions to problems that will be in everyone's best interests; values calmness and safety!.



The "PESKY FOUR" (The ones that pose exceptional difficulties in application!. )

21!. Having Fidelity/ Loyal -- shows faithfulness, trustworthiness, keeps commitments, doesn't talk behind others' backs, remains a good friend even in hard times!. Problem: Essential to in-group survival, but has also been used to justify immoral acts against outsiders; allows for protection of destructive members within the group—punishes within?group members for attempting to weed out its unethical or unfit, even if the group might be harmed if the immoral behavior continues (Snitch syndrome)!.

22!. Respecting Autonomy --- respects the rights of individuals to decide how to live their lives!. Problem #1: Essential to a free society, but what if the decisions are harmful (physically, mentally, or morally) to themselves or others!? Problem #2: What are the markers (age, illness, actions) for withholding autonomy!?

23!. Being Tolerant —is able to recognize and respect the differences among people, does not discriminate just because someone is different; acknowledges positive characteristics, not just limitations!. Problem: Does everyone deserve tolerance!? Current debate is whether tolerance for diversity has blunted people's interest and ability to make sound moral judgments about others and even themselves (that is, diversity, as in “anything goes" or "whatever !.!.!. “)!.

24!. Having Self-respect -- has due regard for one's own reputation and long?term image of a "good" person; does not abuse
one’s own body or act in trivial ways that are dangerous to oneself; cares about one's own Yourself!? (Your conscience !?)
character: is comfortable with oneself (self?esteem)!. Problem: Potential for self?absorption and narcissism!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

if u says all these, it oredi show u all have forgotten how to be a good person for a long long time oredi and there ain't any good pple left!. LOL! hahaah guess too much influenced by the doggies pple in the doggies environment for too much!.

Famous saying : Evil arise when the GOOD do nothing! Exactly like Singaporean! hahah these government good doggies become bad when there is no one stop them EXCEPT me no 2! hahaha out of 5 million populations, i am the one and only STOP the DOGGIES of Singapore! no wonder Elva loves me deeply deep! imao! haha

Talking cock!? stay with me and XP with me! i no need to talking cock to show off u all!. hahaWww@QuestionHome@Com

Never being blamed for anything!. Always make sure when someone makes a mistake, you're the first yelling loud and long that you don't cotton to their mistakes, that you are not soft on crime, that they MUST be punished!.!.!.or at least censured!.

Always smile for the cameras!. If you smile, you're probably a happy person, carefree, with nothing to hide!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

honest
loyal
unselfish
follow the J-O-Y rule (if you're christian, if you're not, it's the O-Y rule)
J-esus first O-thers second Y-ourself last
Helpful
Kind
Generous
Basically, the most inmportant ones are honest, generous, and unselfish!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I have never met anyone with the whole list!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hitler was very good to his dogs, while Mother Theresa beat her nuns mercilessly!. Einstein stole his theory from his wife and divorced her, Gandhi slept with under-aged girls, Martin Luther King was a womanizer and Richard Nixon was a great pianist!.

I would suggest there are no good or bad people except as I choose to determine them!. I am good, you are all sketchy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Compassion for others!.
No ego; therefore, no jealousy, envy, greed, or lust!.
Honesty
Loyal
Kind hearted
Generosity
And a person who sees everyone as equal!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

good people must be able to:

1!. cook a meal
2!. sing a song
3!. change their own oilWww@QuestionHome@Com

A good person is simply an opinion by a person!.

However simply moralsWww@QuestionHome@Com

Responsibility to do given tasks and respecting others that you communicate withWww@QuestionHome@Com

good and bad people are set by the society,
god and bad are both relative!. there is no good or bad!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Protecting others free will, and your own, peacefully!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Selflessness and a desire to meet the needs of others!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Compassion and kindness!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Basic nature!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Be unselfish and follow the Golden RuleWww@QuestionHome@Com