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Question: Can you forget how love feels like!?
Can time fade memory of being in love, the pain, tears, joy, romance!? Or do you just turn bitter/cynical!? Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Time can make the emotions and feelings fade, but I don't think that it can ever take them away from you!. There are still the memories!. Remembering events can easily bring back the pain, or joy, or romance!. Sure, the raw, heartfelt emotions might not be with you as strongly, but they're still there, buried deep inside of you!. You can either choose to dig them up, or leave them there, untouched!.

Of course, you can always choose to resent those feelings, and turn yourself into that "bitter" person!. Or, you can treasure every moment, whether it's hurtful or cherished, and make the absolute best of past experiences!.

You know, people always tell you to look to the future, and focus on the present!. I think your past can be just as important!. Sure, you can always stow away your memory of love, but I think that if you just grasp onto the memories of it, it can empower to you either learn from your mistakes, or continue to love!.

Edit: You forgot how to love!? Impossible!. We're all human, and we're all capable of love!. I mean, love is everywhere!. Maybe not for a significant other, but there's always friends that you can love, as well as your family!. Love isn't simple romance for me!. You can love anyone that cares for you, and being devoted to a person is like being loved back!.!.!.it feels good!.

Ahh!. I wrote too much!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Absolutely!.
I've been in love twice!.!. and I think after the first time, I really forgot what it's like to be in love, like that feeling!. I just remembered the hurt afterwards!. So, when I fell in love again it was so strong I felt like I loved the second guy more then I loved the first, which probably isn't true!. I probably felt the same for both!. But because I forgot to know how it felt, I forgot how amazing it felt!. I think immediately after a breakup, you feel the pain and tears and it overpowers the love!. And after the relationship is over that 'being in love' feeling hurts, and no longer feels good!. That's what I think!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That would depend on how you examine those feelings while you are in your grieving process!. If you look back with bitterness, you'll end up bitter because you allow the regrets and anger eat you up inside!. But if you look back with a logical attitude!.!.!.that the pain and tears were all a part of the life long learning process for example!.!.!.you'll actually be allowing yourself to heal, and be able to look back fondly!. I don't think you ever forget how love actually feels!. The feelings might just become nostalgic, but you never truly forget!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't really think that people forget what love feels like!. I think that if they went through a lot they try to forget!. Try to move past the pain!. It's kinda hard to forget because u have so many people in your life that love and care about you!. And even in time if things keep going wrong and that person keeps getting hurt, I think that they still hold on to a memory of a time when they were in love or felt love!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It can go both ways!. It all depends on the individual!. I think you will find that those of a warm heart will never turn bitter or cynical!. But those of a selfish heart will grow into a bitter and cynical attitude!.
It all depends on the man or the woman involved!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i remember how it feels now
in my new relationship i feel the same kind of love i felt
once long before
and it didnt take long to recognize the feeling
or where i remembered it from

before this wonderful relationship of mine,
i had totally forgotten the feelingWww@QuestionHome@Com

When the pain goes away!.!.!.that's when it feels the worst!. It's like you realize all of those feelings you gave were for nothing!. It's very deflating!.

You can remember how to love, though! It's like remember to wake up in the morning!.!.!.you just do!? (hopefully)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Ignorent people forget it when they have it and when they lose it and no longer have it is when they remember it and they remember it stronger and stronger every day that goes by without having it and thats why they look for it so strongly!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't remember how it feels to love!. I just don't remember anything!Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have never been in love, so i dont know!.

Depends on how deeply you were connected with your ex-lover!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'll never remember!. Meh!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i cannot forget how love feels!!! it is a feeling that lasts forever!!! Www@QuestionHome@Com