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Question: Things just don't seem to be going right for me!?
I need some advice because I seem to be having the worst luck ever!.!.!. because things don't seem to be going good for me!.!.!.let me just mention some of the things!.!.!.
Yesterday my purse just completely broke and the little parts fell on the floor and as I was picking them up my actual purse got swept up by the lunch monitors!.!.!.then they called me into the office and accused me of selling drugs because I had about $20!.00 in my purse and they lectured me into getting a wallet!.!.!.!.(which I had one but it got stolen at school)!. Then I had my ipod in my purse and I had to take my purse, and my jacket off and sit them at my desk because we had a chemistry lab that dealt with fire!.!.!.so I guess while I was doing that my ipod must have fallen out or it was stolen and I can't seem to find it!!! also this guy that looks exactly like my ex boyfriend is trying to get with me!.!.!.and I don't like him and I've rejected him about 10 different times!.!.!.and he still likes me!!! Now my mom is going to think that I'm irrisponsible and I'm really not!.!.!.I just want things to get better!.!.!.my stepdad says that I'm a jinx and I have bad luck!.!.!.well why do I seem to have bad luck!? I'm a pretty good person and I try to do good and be good to people!.!.!.why can't things ever go good for me!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Your doing what I call stacking!.
Each thing is separate and may be able to be dwelt with!.
However with each thing stacked one upon another they look overwhelming!.
I can help you!. by suggesting that you separate each issue and deal with them separately!.
The guy situation!. I would simply talk with your parents and tell the school authorities that this man is stalking you and do not encourage him any longer!.
It is one thing to dismiss him however to take him back and drop him again is giving mixed messages!.
As for the purse it is time to get another one no doubt
As for a wallet that is private choice!.
loosing ipod etc it sounds sad however it is not the end of the world!.
You can always get materialistic objects and money again!.
Just stop and relax and breath!.
Step back a bit and start over again!.
I have been in your situations many times!.
You just have to reboot so does speak!.
Take some time off and relax and go for it again!.
DFF
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For things to be better, you must think as if you're whole inside not just outside, if you think you're stranded in stress outside, you'll believe it inside, that stress will manifest your life, and ruin any aurora of happiness you may or may not see coming below the stress if you can deal with it in good terms!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
one's being attracts one's life
if you don't pay attention to the details, they're going to bite you in the aass!.
last word is misspelled intentionally to circumvent the yahoo priesthood and their holier-than-thou sanctimonyWww@QuestionHome@Com
They think you're bad luck cuz you keep losing stuff!.!.!.Everything else, you're just over-reacting!.!.!.and ignore that dude that looks like your ex!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
maybe you're stressed out and just need to relax!. or maybe something wants you to learn something!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Don't worry about any of that!. As you get older, you will soon find out how much worse things will get!. That's why so many adults wish they were young again!. Once you become an adult, you will look at your past, think about your future, and realize how absurd and hostile the real world is!. Life sucks and hell is other people!.
Just take advantage of your youth!. Have fun while you are young because once you become an adult, you will work like a dog until you die!. Try socialism if you don't want to work so hard and still have a fun adulthood (Europe)!.
Pretty grim advice, I know!. Try not to become an existentialist!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Some people attract problems!. Your purse broke and got swept up by the monitors!? Why!? Didn't they see it break!?
People can't be accused of selling drugs with $20 in their pocket!. They must have had a reason for saying that!. Maybe a little residue!? If your ipod was in your purse, that means the school gave you back your purse!? If they think you deal drugs, why didn't they call your parents!? Nothing you said makes sense!.
I don't know how old you are, but you're not mature enough to deal with yourself, let alone a boyfriend!.
Talk to your mother, she has to have control of you, because obviously you can't handle yourself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com