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Question: If somebody accuses you of doing, or saying, something "all the time"!!?
And yet they cannot come up with a single instance!. Should they be taken seriously!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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No you should not!. They are being manipulative!. Still, you might want to examine the basis for their faulty perceptions!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Sometimes, people say it out of a sudden burst of emotion!. However, I can't really say that you shouldn't take them seriously!.

1) You may have done or said something a lot of times already yet the person who accused you can't think of anything at the moment because he/she can't think properly because of the heightened emotions as of the moment!.

2) What you've done or said might have really pissed them off or had a deep impact with their feelings that even if you've done it 1 or 2 times, it feels to them that you've already did or said it to them repetitively!. So maybe you should think about it too in some cases!.Www@QuestionHome@Com



Sometimes I do things, and I do accept accusations if they are true!.

If someone is accusing you of doing something or saying something without showing any evidence, and you know that in yourself that you're innocent, then that someone is a liar, and most probably he just wants to ruin your reputation or hurt your ego!. Well if that person is envious enough, well you gotta be careful!. Just be cautious!.

two things to do:

----Prove him wrong about his allegations!.
----Avoid people like him!.



Good Luck!

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That's always been one of my biggest pet peeves!. People should have instances to back things up like that, though I just hate getting accused of anything!. Even if I DID do it lol!.

Whenever people do that to me, it usually turns out they can only think of one time, if that!. No, I would not take them seriously!. People talk mostly out of passion and emotion!. Not rationality!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

They are hiding something themselves!
Psychological projection!
They cheat on you yet attack you as if you are doing the cheating!

If you're doing the time you may as well do the crime!Www@QuestionHome@Com

You should know; after all, it is you who is doing or saying!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not really cus what are the basing their statement on!?
Nothing!!!
So I would let it fly!

God bless & Live,Love,JonasWww@QuestionHome@Com

No and this is a good question!. Don't you just love arguing with psychos!.Www@QuestionHome@Com