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Question: What is your opinion about loving someone here in the internet!?
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Well Jeannie Kathleen, I think I've already given an opinion on a somewhat similar question!. I was a little saddened to read some of the responses you've received!. I'm afraid I'm a hopeless romantic, and I don't think of love as being purely physical!. Are you familiar with the line from the musical, "Man of La Mancha: "!.!.!.to love pure and chaste from afar!.!.!."!? I'm afraid I'm still naive enough to believe such a love is possible, though I may well be the last person on the planet who thinks so!. Ah well, I've always marched to a different drummer!. But, as I've said elsewhere, there are so many different kinds of love, and each of us loves with an intensity and a capacity that is unique!. And though disappointment and disillusion have done their best to make me cynical, I find that, for me, love like hope,"springs eternal!." So Jeannie Kathleen, I'm afraid I have to say,"Yes, I think it's possible!."!.!.!.!.!.but it's also very dangerous!. There are many people out there who are devious, and there are those who, for self-gratification, will lie, and who are adept at expressing feelings they don't possess!. If indeed, you find someone on the internet who seems to feel as you do, and with whom you can share ideas, be careful! Allow time to pass and share your feelings over that time!.!.!.!.a long time!. If the relationship grows and you don't detect a hint of insincerity, then perhaps you've found a friend!. I hope with all my heart you have!. It really is a "vale of tears"out there and in the end, love is all we have!. For me, at least, it is enough!Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.EXCELLENT!.!.!.

!.!.!.it expresses the inner mind, the use and sharing of words, that express ones innermost feelings exactly!.!.!.

!.!.!.this exchanging of loving thoughts!.!.!.are food for the emotions, spirit, mind, and body!.!.!.

!.!.!.especially when both agree!.!.!.to share, enjoy and not abuse the intimacy of thoughts!.!.!.

!.!.!.its a beautiful and enjoyable time!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think sometimes you just can't help it!
Meeting someone online is far more intense emotionally than meeting someone in a 'real life' forum !.!.!. there is such scope for connecting in a meaningful way, for getting to know one another unfettered by the constraints generally imposed by the wider society - when you meet someone online and decide to engage in one-on-one contact (via email or IM), then there is such intimacy between the two of you together online!. There is often a sharing of thoughts and feelings beyond what you might be comfortable with in real life!. Emotional intimacy often happens at an accelerated rate compared to that within offline friendships!. Love does grow, not necessarily romantic love, but definitely love, nonetheless!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

When you come home from the theater,
And your love makes you a cup of tea,
Within that single act of kindness & respect, lies more genuine love…
…than in all the plays, and poems, and songs combined!.

Internet love is safe!. Like internet hate!.
This digital prophylactic protects us form the danger of skin on skin!.
And so it must remain Theater!.
Grand passion ever shielded from the kind & simple act!.

I love theater, & poetry, & song, & all that celebrates the passion of life!.

And yet it seems on some level,
In order to truly live
Danger must become
Our cup of tea!.
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It's risky!.
But isn't love a risk anyways!?


I've done it before, but we had mutual friends so it wasn't a complete stranger!. One of the best/worst relationships ever!. It ended horribly, but I wish him no harm!.

I personally wouldn't do it again just because there are so many things a physical relationship provides that you can't have via the internet!. But at the same time on the internet I think the love is less tainted, because it's just emotions, nothing physical takes place!. It's interesting, that's for sure!. Just need to be very careful!.

Love is love!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think it's a waste!. I admit that you can be attracted to someone TRULY and PURELY emotionally, and it's not wrong to have that!. But to have a romantic relationship with someone, even if it's not seriously physical, requires a physical aspect!. I don't think you can truly love someone without hearing their voice, seeing their voice, touching their hand!. And I'm not saying every relationship should be two people both searching for true love!. But what's the point in a romantic relationship if true love couldn't possibly result from it!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Jeannie Kathleen, I love so many here, including you, so very much!
You can love many in "spirit"! But to physically love someone, you must be 'physically' present with them!. You must be able to talk to them and at the same time, look into their eyes, to feel if their heart is sincere!. There have been many that have been led on a wild goose chase across continents, only to be left with a broken heart!
So, be very careful, protect your fragile heart, and love physically as well as spiritually!. It is the only way to be sure!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Love is healthy, it only goes bad when things like envy, jealousy or obsessiveness comes to play, you dont really need a reason for it like if you will meet them or w/e, because its transcending and you dont even need a touch to experience it, its also a universal love!.

spread the love i say, in the internet or anywhere else, you make other people happy, and you will feel good yourself

g'dayWww@QuestionHome@Com

Love is complicated enough face to face!. I think that emotion can't really be spread through a machine!. Not even over the phone!. I know that when I'm in love with someone, I want to be able to take their hand in mine, look deep into their eyes, and whisper in their ear!. You can't express feelings like that with a computer!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Beware!!! You have no way of knowing who is on the other end of that computer screen--who they REALLY are!. Over a period of time you may come to know them better, but you still do not really know that person without a face-to-face meeting, and sometimes even that isn't sufficient!.

I met a guy through the net!. Then we met face-to-face!. I fell in love with him and he with me!. Or so I thought!. I'm not going to air my dirty laundry here in so public a forum, but trust me when I tell you he was not who and what he claimed to be!. He lied and was cheating on me the whole two years that I was with him!.

In the end I was the one who was hurt!. Not physically, thank goodness, but emotionally--and I didn't realize how deep the hurt was until I met another man and TRIED to trust him!. My trust factor is at zero now, all thanks to an on-line romance!.

Good luck!. But, as I said in the beginning of this: BEWARE!Www@QuestionHome@Com

it kinda creeps me out
in real life they are so many extraneous factors!.!.!.pressure/stress/changes/luck/m!.!.!. going on and it makes that love much more real and significant!. the fact that you can't control anything outside of the interent is refreshing and makes me feel alive!.
maybe meet the person online at first, but always meet in person after!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Loving someone in the internet sounds fishy to me!. In the internet you have the ability to change everything who you are!. SO you dont know who you are really talking to!. For example!. i am male!.20 !. 6 figures!.!. 6 pack!.!. that was a lie if you didnt know :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well if you do find love good luck to you!. I do believe it is possible but I would advise against chat rooms!. I would be very leery of yahoo answers unless someone here has taken your fancy by their intellect wit and soul!. Good luck to you!. Later!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think that it can be good for you!. You can explore a lot of positive things about yourself without negatives interfering!.

I hope you are also having a wonderful time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Indirect love!. I love them because they are human!. But this is weak love!. As in, I love animals!.

Not as in, I love my friends, family, special someone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Loving someone in the internet is like having a crush :-(

Having a crush is painful, they seem to be close to you but actually they are very far away :-(

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It's very exciting as a beginning but eventually it's important to meet!. Cyber relations over the internet can really get messy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you communicate a lot and discuss about meeting and dating this person!. then, go right ahead!. If you won't be meeting him/ her then forget about it!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Pathetic!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, its wonderful sensation!. It keeps you alive and who knows one day we meet with those we chat here!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Life is all about taking chances!. And living with your choices!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You shouldn't do it!. If you can't meet them in person, then forget it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i know many people that get married throught the internet
well i dont have any problem i am with itWww@QuestionHome@Com

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