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Question: Are you an INTUITIVE or INSIGHTFUL person, if so then answer this for 10 points !?
Hello world!. Well some of you may already know!.!.!.!. Good news here!.
My exgirl and I are trying to patch things up again!. She just got out
of an abusive relationship!. She was with this man and things took a
turn for the worst!. She started smoking again, and became very depressed!. He read her emails, and cell phone messages, too!.
She was forced to stop all forms of communication with me!. This was
in June 2008!. Fast forward, she came back to me!. She sent an email, and let me know that she got away and was safe!. But we got
into it a little about our past!. And she been through so much with
this man and her family too!. What do you think she is thinking
right now about her life !? And how does she feel about me !?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Here's what's going on!. She needs space!. She needs to be left alone to sort out her life and to get things back on track!. She needs you to affirm that she did the right thing by leaving this abusive and controlling guy!. She will want to go back!. She will think that she made the wrong choice and that maybe he was controlling her out of love!. This may sound crazy, but it very well could happen!.

I wouldn't walk away from her!. I would be cautious and I wouldn't start a relationship with her as anything other than a friend!. That's what she needs right now more than a boyfriend, more than a lover!.

She has been through quite a lot and she needs time to heal!. Things could work out for the two of you, but you'll have to be willing to wait up to a year!. Help her to stop smoking!. Be there for her in those ways, and maybe she will see you for the good, loving man that I hope you truly are!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If she calls you, she's probably looking for love that affirms her level of innocence before going through heck with said abusive relationship!.

If she doesn't respect you, that's not a good sign

You might benefit by reading "Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet,
"Sexual Force or the Winged Dragon," O!. M!. Aivanhov, and
"For Men Only," Shaunti Feldhahn!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You need to get as far away from this person as possible!. I know that does not sound like the answer you want to hear, but it's true!. She's on the rebound and going to you because she thinks you are safe!. If you let her walk all over you again then it will continue to happen again and again!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

INTUITIVE:
Quick and ready insight; immediate apprehension or cognition!.

INSIGHTFUL:
The power or act of seeing into a situation; the act or result of apprehending the inner nature of things or of seeing intuitively!.

Yes!. Both!. I don't know how she feels about you or if things will work out at all!.
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Your obsession with this one particular woman is on the borderline of "clinical"!. You seem to me, overexcited and in a rush!. That's bad!.!.!.so slow the "F" down dude!.

Now, are you expecting sexual relations with this woman or is it deeper!? Answering this yourself and obtaining an answer from her in regards to the previous questions would help you to be less confused!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

from an intutitive and insightful person,

Yahoo anwers cannot help you, Sorry nobody here knows who you, the girl and the other guy is, so you need to ask people that know you and your past relationship, sorry, you shouldn't look for these types of answers here!.
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wow, it just seems like she has a lot on her plate right now!. Are you sure she is ready for dating!. If she is are you sure that you are ready to date someone that has a lot of baggage!? Just a thoughtWww@QuestionHome@Com

You know her better than we do!. What do you see when you put yourself in her shoes!?

It is probably right to assume that she's hurt!. One feels lonely when one's hurt!. She wants warmth!. You may have provided that in the past!. She may be looking for it!.

She may not be ready for a serious commitment so soon after she escaped personal danger, as you have portrayed!. Plus not knowing what you two went through in the past, I could only assume further that you two have your unresolved issues, and that complicates her willingness to be back with you right at this moment!.

Only patience can help both of you!. Encourage her to take you as a friend, and try not to be anything else for a little while!. Perhaps this is where things mature between the two of you, and if that's the case it only nurtures the bond further!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Sounds like she needs a FRIEND right now, not a romance!. Be a friend to her, even though it will KILL any chances of a romance!.

also, do you KNOW for a fact that this guy was abusive!? I had a close friend who was abusing her boyfriend and then CLAIMED that he abused her to get all kinds of money/help/sympathy!. When the help slowed down she went RIGHT BACK TO ABUSING HIM!.

As for a romance, either way it is unlikely!. #1 she is attracted to losers, so she won't want you, or #2 she is just using people, including maybe you!.

If you just try to be a friend, a listener, it will either help her (if #1), or send her on her way looking for a new sucker (if #2)!.Www@QuestionHome@Com