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Question: What sort of character weaknesses of other people annoy you the most!?
And if you are totally honest with yourself, do you have the same character weakness too!? I ask as often what annoys us most, we also still have in us!. For example, it annoys me if somebody is undecided, nevertheless if I am honest with myself, I am also often undecided!.
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
The one's that remind me most of my own personal-shortcomings!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't know about being annoyed by it, because I don't see much value in living my life by being annoyed by the so-called character weaknesses of myself and others!. However, if I could change 1 thing about the way that people act, including myself, it would be that we all manifest much more of our capacities to be more loving!. If you are willing to have forgiveness in your heart for those "flaws" that you and others have, you will be much less annoyed and feel much happier with the actions of yourself and your fellow human beings!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I hate the self-sacrificing type with the ridiculous martyr complex!. They complicate everything and just end up making those who really care about them work harder to know what they actually want, or give up because they refuse to put their own needs anywhere on their list of priorities!. It makes for a very difficult relationship and wholly un-necessary sacrifices!. Oh and yes I do this, its what bugs me the most about myself!. It's never noble to be a martyr, its only hurts!.!.!.everyone!.

ugh!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I truly object to amateurs sitting back in their chairs, crossing their legs and begin to psychoanalyze you!. The SOBs gain satisfaction when they think they are putting you on the defensive!. They haven't a clue regarding cause and effect!. It is an ego trip from start to finish!. What I dislike about myself is my total intolerance when this happens, and when I stand up and find it necessary to get up and leave the company of those people!. Some of whom are my friends!.
Here, let me tell you how it usually starts!. First the "analyst" never springs his or her little act in a one on one situation!. It is always performed in the company of a small group of people!. A coffee clutch is where they eagerly ply their insult!. The tip off is , "You know Mike the trouble with you is!.!.!." Then watch out!. Better yet!. get out!. There's no stopping them!. They are spoiling for a debate, and you are their prey!.This indignity is even further heightened when it happens in my own home!. It is then when I ask the offender to either stop his or her BS or go home!. MikeWww@QuestionHome@Com

There are a lot of things that annoy me about other people, and, yes, I have most of those traits as well!.

Some things I hate are:
When people are closed minded and won't even hear you out!.
(I do this sometimes)
When people discriminate!.
(I hardly ever do this!.)
When people want others to feel sorry for them
(I don't do this)
When people try way too hard to impress others!.
(I hardly ever do this)
When people are superficial
(I'm the opposite of this!.lol!.)
When people are mean to others for absolutely no reason!.
(I do this all the time!.)
When people mooch off of others!.
(I only do this with family ;])

There are a lot of others!. I'm not as tolerant as I thought I was!. : /Www@QuestionHome@Com

People who are so confident and adamant that they're right that they say it's impossible they could be wrong!. I see it as a sign of extreme ignorance!. This is evident when you put two fundamentalists from two contradictory religions next to each other; they're living in completely different realms of reality, often thinking you'll go to hell for not thinking like them!. Ignorance causes a lot of problems in this world!.

I admit my own ignorance to the point of non-decision and seeming 'lost' because I don't have answers; being too extreme results in nihilism and unhappiness, so neither extremes are good!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Those who make excuses for all the scumbags that prey on the weak or those unable to fight back!. That really pi**es me off!.
But what simply annoys me is those with no self drive!. They know what needs to be done and they make excuses for not not getting up and doing it!.
No I don't have those flaws!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You are correct in that the character weaknesses that one his or herself has are the ones they see most plainly in others!.

This is a blessing in that it teaches us that we are all the same and to not judge others!.

Thank you sincerely for the post!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

the i'm smarter than you your stupid atitude and if you want to get it fixed repair person you'll have to pay up or you will suffer!.and not going to tell you how to fix it yourself unless you want the wrong info!.
ANOYS A LOT !!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not thinking the way I think!.

I always think the way I think!. I find it really annoying when I know something elaborately, and the other person doesn't know it!.!.!.then I have to explain things, ugh!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I absolutely detest liars!. This includes exagerration meant to impress me!. Bullcrap is not impressive!. And no, I am not one myself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I hate that most girls think they're fat or ugly or something else bad about them even if they are the prettiest girl ever, and yes I am the same!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

hmmm,never look at people as having weaknesses,have some bad traits and personality's,only thing i can say is when people use there down falls of them self's to take advantage of others!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I despise uncalled for rudeness!.
I never do it!. And I will not tolerate it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com