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Question: What do you do with this emptiness!? !?
I feel like I'm missing something!. I feel like I need something more!.!.!.
I have come to realize that the thing that I think about over and over and over is how I'm lonely!. Yeah, I have TONS of friends!. But I need a man!. BAD!. It's all I can think about!. It's just a bad feeling!.

1!.how do I over come this feeling!?
2!. how can I get past it!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Get involved in stuff which makes you happy, join clubs/organizations, volunteer, go to the movies, do a hobby that you like, go outside in the sunshine (the bright light and colors outside can raise you're mood immensely, listen to your fave music, read a calming and interesting book, do something productive, talk on Y!A to people!.

Its mainly about expanding your horizons and putting yourself out there!. Let yourself become more known to people, try to connect with others based on your similar interests, try to look past the looks to see if there is goodness and understanding inside!. Do things you wouldn't normally do, break out of your "comfort zone"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Try to inquire into this 'feeling'!. Immerse yourself in it!.!.!. Is it true!? Would a man complete you!? Is what you are yearning a man or is there a place in you that is searching for a greater meaning, a greater connection with life!. What is wrong with this moment!. Do you trust life to make your wounds heal, your body to function!? How much easier then to believe that all that you desire will come your way simply by trusting that life will lead you when the time is right!.!.!. Try enjoying your friends, your moments, your desire for a man even!. Living life now and being satisfied and accepting of what is opens you to all else to manifest perfectly, in order, and lets you realize your true peace behind all of this!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If deep down you truly feel you need a man in your life, then do what you can to find one (IE!. socialize more often, get out more and try meeting new people) but in the mean while to make the process easier to overcome, try filling in your time doing the things you love just so your not feeling down about being single, and who knows right when you least expect you might meet a guy!. So really just get your mind off it, and all else will fall in place!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

"Animals respond nobly to the urge of life, but only man can attain the art of living, albeit the majority of mankind only experience the animal urge to live!.


A philosophy to consider when dealing with your emptiness!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah!.!.I can't think of anything that can fill a void in a person!. I would suggest doing something you love to replace it!.!.but thats just a bandage!. You need the cure, and eventually Mr!. Right will meet you one day!. Be patient, and we can be lonely together!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.change your attitude!.!.!.
!.!.!.get into an interest you enjoy and socialize with others that share your interest too!.!.!.
!.!.!.get away from the computer and socialize with others on a more personal level!.!.!.
!.!.!.life is yours when active!.!.!.life will pass you by if inactive and lamenting!.!.!.
!.!.!.good luck!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

To answer #1!. : Go buy a dildo!. #2 : Go kill yourself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com