Is it fate teaching us to stick up for ourselves or is fate being mean?

Question: Is it fate teaching us to stick up for ourselves or is fate being mean!?
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

Neither!.
Fate is teaching us!. But what it is teaching you is what you need to
learn!. It teaches me what I need to learn!. Earth school contains all lessons!.
Before coming down the birth canal, we prepare a script or lesson plan!.
Maybe you need to learn compassion and have to deal with family
issues that make you hang in there!. One way or other you will learn
that particular lesson!. Maybe it was easy or maybe it take the hyde off!.

I didn't mention that script preparation was aided by one who loves you
dearly and wants you to have a wonderful life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that it is just teaching us to stick up for our self, but fate is just plain mean when you come face to face with your enemy in the middle of an abandoned street at MidnightWww@QuestionHome@Com

even though fate is tied up w/ everything!.!.!.i would say its more of adaptation than fate it self when dealing with sticking up for ourselves!.!.!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

its not fate - its human nature, and it is never mean to stick up for oneself - unless you use mean languageWww@QuestionHome@Com

Fate!?

Or is it choice!?

You choose!.

Be well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

FIRST!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com