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Question: Could he be the one(soul mate)!?
So this is kinda weird!. But I've been in love with this guy for 3 years!. He's just so wonderful!. =]

I've tried before to stop loving him, but he ends up back in my life somehow and I fall all over myself for him again!. And I have some sort of connection to him!. I can spot him in a room full of crowded people and I just know where he is!. Without even trying!

I just!.!.idk!. I can't help but wonder, is he my!.!.soul mate!?

Please don't answer if you don't believe in soul mates!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
"Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet, is worthwhile!.

"For Men Only" and "For Women Only," Shaunti Feldhahn, offer helpful advice for the complementary genders!.

As has been said, if you can sit across a table and feel love, without having to "make love" via sexual excitement, you're in love, not in lust!.

The championing of your inner child by him, and of his by you, is a major component of enduring harmony and love!. Men prefer respect a little more than love, e!.g!. your standing by him as he works on his car, and handing him tools, asking him sincere, genuine questions, appreciating what he does!. As a woman, you tend to prefer love a little more than even respect, and a man needs to realize and accept this!.!.!.hence, "For Men Only!." However, giving it to him, "Here, read this" could be off-putting!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I do believe in Soulmates, and I can say this; nobody can tell you if this person is yours accept for you and him!. He may not know you are, and you may, so you'd have to reveal yourself to him!. How can he know the flower is there if the flower doesn't bloom and show itself in the sun!? But what if you get to know him, he thinks you are his SM, but you change your mind!? Well, if you think he is, and he doesn't, or vise versa, clearly he's not your SM and you're not his; Bit of a tongue twister there, not meant!.

Basically, only the two of you can be sure!. Speak to him, hopefully try out a relationship, and follow it from there!. But I warn you, this discovery can be tricky, and hurtful!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hmmm!.!.!.can only offer subjective opinion, but in my opinion, we have more than one soul mate!. That is, if we have lived many lives, it stands to reason that we have bonded to many others!. When we find one, we seem to "know" it!. Maybe this is why we are sometimes soooo attracted to someone we feel might be "the one"!. Maybe they were in another life and we somehow recognize them!. It's all speculation on my part, but I've drifted into that point of view!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

by the sound of it i think he is you know when its right you know better than anyone could ever tell you!
you know how amazing you are together and thats all you need to know i feel extremly lucky i have also been with my fiance for 3 years and sometimes i wonder because we are so perfect for each other it just fits like a glove!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
you will know what i mean something just fits its hard to explain how you feel

but im sure this happieness will continue for the two of you
xx

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I wish you both be living happily for a long, long period as mates in this mortal earth and later you can definitely join as soul mates in the other world!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Love should be two way!. He might be your choice but make sure you are his!. If it is both ways then he should be your soul mate!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you have been in a real relationship for over two years successfully then your chances of making it are very good!. Www@QuestionHome@Com