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Question: Is it evil to live a double life!?
like living two completely different lives, two sets of friends, two masks, two personalities that dont know about each other!?

im thinking of deleting facebook, coz im living a double life, and when people tag photos it kinda exposes me!.

am i wrong to live a double life!?
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
It depends what kind of double life you mean!.

If you mean married man who visits prostitutes regulary for a decade without telling wife - evil

If it's just you have very different sets of friends, and are reluctant to merge them or let them know about eachother coz they're incompatible, then no!. That's normal!.

Half the time ''double life'' is just harmonising your life for the sake of other people - you separate things in your life and pretend things are certain way to separate people to make things go smoother!.

If you're changing then sometimes you need to change the people you hang out with / aquaint yourself with!. It just naturally happens!. But if your the type of people who just always has very different friends / sides / scenes then that's who you are!.

I'm the same actually I just tend to make friends with very different people and I relate to them in different ways!. This has been the case my whole life!. But I don't bother with facebook I don't like those things, so I don't feel like I'm hiding anything!.

You're probably just worried what everyone thinks cos they see conflicting images of you!.!.!.and our confusing the sh1t out of them!. So decide what's more important to you!. Delete facebook will mean you won't have to feel like your hiding anything!. Or just stick to one group mainly - the one that you think you really are!. If your not sure who you are yet, you have a problem!.!.!.So continue sending conflicting images and try not to give a sh1t when people judge, But don't change just coz you feel pressured!.

Geezuz christ everything I write these days is an essay!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you feel you need to ask, it obviously bothers you!. Be who you really are!. It isn't necessarily evil, it depends on who you are posing as and why!. Just know that you run the risk of being exposed for leading the duel life!. I can't help but think you are feeling a bit guilty about this and if you are you need to delete the account because it is doing you a lot more harm than good!. You know guilt is a destructive emotion sometimes it is legitmate and sometimes it isn't, if you are lying to other people to lead your duel life!.!.!.well, I don't know how to tell you just don't feel guilty about being dishonest!.
Your level of integrity is your own to choose!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't live a double life, but I really don't think there's anything wrong with doing so!.
The way I see it is: If you're not hurting anyone, should it matter!?

But I do think deleting your Facebook would be a good idea because I found out that one of my friends was not who he claimed to be because of it!.
Of course, in that case he was cheating on my best friend, so there was a problem with that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I dont think it is evil but you have to ask yourself !.!.!.are you being the person you really want to be and truley are inside!. It sounds to me like you have not yet "found yourself" so to speak and maybe you should do some serious sole searching!. People change, grow, and sometimes become people they dislike!. Always remember be yourself!.
As Kurt Cobain once said its always better to be hated for what you are then loved for what you are not!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

why would you live a double life!?

god only gave us one life to live, so live that life!. not two!.

and no i certainly do not live a double life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have been doing it on and off all of my life!. It works for me!. I keep thinking what a disaster my funeral is going to be though!.Www@QuestionHome@Com