Why is it that we lose.....?

Question: Why is it that we lose!.!.!.!.!.!?

stuff we don't want to lose, and never lose the stuff we want to lose!?

for example, someone can lose the one they love,
but they just cant seem to lose weight no matter how hard they try!.

( i did ask this like 20 minutes ago but i had to change where i put it, and fix my spelling )Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

We lose things that we don't want to lose so we can learn how to lose!. How to live with the loss, how to be a good loser in a competition, how to live with both good and bad!. We don't lose things we want to, to teach us that we can't always get what we want!. We want to lose, so sometimes we don't!. We want to win, so sometimes we don't!.

Much luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Those two examples has no corelation to eachother!.
About losing love, that kinda thing involve 2 subjects (u n ur bf/gf/family) therefore its a two way connections (u to them and them to u)!. So, either one of u can disconnect the relation if it doesnt work out between u two coz neither one of u can have full control to run the relation!. Theres always reaction/feedback of actions!.

About losing weight, its only one way connection, which means u to urself!. U have full control!. So if there's anything wrong ie, u cant lose weight, that would be ur responsibility!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

your question only makes sense in the context of your example so its not really a good pointWww@QuestionHome@Com