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Question: All I have ever known in my life is violence!. I've had to fight my intire life, and now I need a job!?
I am on probation for threatening to kill my neighbor with a knife, the morning after he assaulted his girlfriend in their front yard!. I will take full responsibility for my actions!. I should have let the police be involved in this matter!.

I am on bond for 2nd degree domestic assault against my uncle, who is a career criminal, and it looks likely that he will never show to court to testify against me, and my mother has promised to be a character witness for me!. She is going to tell the truth that my uncle has held my grandma hostage all her life, and he has shot dope, stole from everyone ect!.!.!.

I need to find a decent job to conyinue to pay for a lawyer, that my psychiatrist has told me about, and to continue to pay for my doctor!.

Where are some ok places to look for work for a felon!? I need decent money, and do not drive!. I do not have to pay any rent right now!. All my money will go towards my lawyer, and my doctors!.

I had nearly a 3!.0 overall GPA at a major university, and 66 credit hours!. I've had towith drawll for the time being!. When my problems aresettledd, I will return!.

I do not want to be a criminal!. I do no use illegal drugs!. I have integrityy!. I want to turn my life around!.

Someone, even a police man who is nice, give me some good advice!.

My probation officer is ok with me right now!.

I also go to church every Sunday!. Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Ask your probation officer for help!. Or how about Home Depot or a restaurant to work in the kitchen!. Just start applying, walk in and ask for an application!. as they say, "if you throw enough **** at the wall, some of it has got to stick!."

Perhaps you need to distance yourself from your family!. I know it sounds absurd, but something in your environment is toxic, and you have to get away from it!. Really, never associate with one who does their own kid dirty!. Your elders had a responsibility to protect you, they did not, you owe them nothing!. You have a choice right now to go after a real life, or to continue in your family pattern!. DO you have any friends who have normal families so you can see how bad yours is!? Really, break free!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

A thrift store like Goodwill will hire you!.
Work there for six months, keep your nose clean, and then you can convince other employers that you're completely reformed and your volatile past is behind you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

going to church every sunday only helps if you pay attention and believe in what you are listening to, that being said, have you heard of UFC!? just an idea!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Jobs are difficult to find even for the best of us!. just be open and honest about your past (that way it can never come back to haunt you!) If you really want to turn things around in your life, then you will!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Waiter, good luck getting hired!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Pray regularly!. He will help you to turn a new leaf in your life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Good for you for trying to turn your life around!.

You could get a job with welding and construction, they hire guys with records, and those guys make good money!.

also ask your probation officer how long your records will be on file!. You won't always have records against after a couple of years they will be wiped away, and you will have a clean slate with a college degree!.

Just keep trying to do the right thing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Pack it up!. You will never be able to find a job!. No one wants trouble at there door!. Maybe you should go to your local governmet building unemployment and be a garbage truck guy, but i really dont think they would want you around either!. No dis repect but you made your life almost impossible!. Telemarketing would probably hire you or dishwasher!. Sad Www@QuestionHome@Com

It looks like you need to start your own business!. Set up a soup kitchen that would be good for the upcoming issues in the ecomony!. $4 a bowl with a piece of bread!. Have four soups to choose from or so!.

Low cost for employment and your in business!.

also look at the smaller churches they usually are more inclined to hire someone with a record!. And I don't think you should be penalized if the reasons you gave for your actions are true!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think you need to relocate, sever all connections with your past, and as you seem so determined you can overcome!. I do not believe going to Church or praying will achieve anything Something like an anger management course might help you or else hypno therapy!. Or have you considered some kind of military career such as joining the French Foreign Legion, which is a very tough life but just might give you the ideal opportunity to sort yourself out faraway from your problems!?
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I presume that you live in the USA, and i know that in some areas you do have the Salvation Army as we do in the UK!. They have a special unit for dealing with people like yourself try to search them out!.
Failing that try to do some voluntary work to build up a reputation and find some self respect, instead of pitying yourself all the time!. We all make mistakes but it seems yours was serious!.Www@QuestionHome@Com