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Question: This is what happened to me at my job and this is why I left, was I right or should I have stuck it through !?
- Some girls I didn't even know their name called me names at a party and made fun of me
- a guy that liked me stop liking me because of what those girls did, I was very disppointed because I started liking him too
- a chef started bashing on me because I refused to go on a date with him
- a girl I bearly knew yelled at me in front of clients for not knowing a few things when I was starting
- my superieur made fun of me behind my back
- two of my collegues complained about something I didn't even do and have proof to back it up
- a nearly 40 year old man was always playing a retard when he was talking to me just to piss me off
- The only friend I thought I had tried to steal money from me when I gave him my trust
Why did all this happen to me, to be honest I DONT HAVE THE SLIGHTEST CLUE, anyone have a take on this !? By the way I'm not fat or stupid or uglyWww@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Chalk it up to some of the many hardships we all have to endure as we proceed through this life!. You can make a list of all of the things that offended you and most will probably be legitimate complaints!. The reality is, you still made the choices that led you to this place, and you are still in control of the choices that will lead you away from this place and into one more to your liking!. I'm not saying you're a victim or paranoid or incapable!.
I'm saying you are in control!.
You are learning what it is like to live in the world!.
You are learning how to choose wisely!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
It sounds as if no one respected you!.
You can't deal with that all the time!.
Find another job!. If you notice that things are the same then I would question what's going on!.
It could be that you are being too serious and people are making fun to lighten it up!.
Bottom line is you need to make money so if you can, ignore future problems!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Where in the hell were you working!.!.!.!.walmart!? You did right to leave!. You should've left earlier! You can't work with people that you don't like or that you don't enjoy being around because it does not create a good work atmosphere!. Seriously, where were you working!? I hope you cursed everyone out the day you walked out because I would have!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Im glad you left its normal!. you couldnt handle everyone "turning against" you!. =|
its hard to trust people, and who likes to be yelled at!?
no1!.
haha!. im sure youre not PARANOID!. =|
youre human!. & u have feelings!.
simpleee as that!.
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that's called McDonalds sweetheart
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Ir sounds like you are living in Salam!. What do they drive!.!.!.!.!. broomsticks!
You were very wise to leave!. They do not sound like the type of people I would like to be around!
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You have a victim mentality!. Cut that out!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Are you Paranoid!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
Hi Lila
Some things happen that sometimes we don't have any clue why!. I can tell bcoz it happened to me too!. Sometimes people react to how we project ourselves to others!. If they see you are worth being bullied it will happen!. Most of the time too its how you perceived the people around you, if you think you are in company of mean people sometimes the universe can hear you and you invite them in your life!. The best I have done which I hope can help you is ask yourself questions and be totally honest answering them!. To thine own self be true regardless of what happened to you!. You are still that beautiful You!.
warm regards!.
mrs BWww@QuestionHome@Com
well probably they couldn't bear the fact that you're too smarter than them!.!.so they might have tried to let you down mentally and you got along with their idea really well and left the place!.!.
Just don't worry girl!.!.you did the best thing you could do!.!.and just be glad that still as a fact you were popular among them as they were always after you and they let you to be the topic during the work!.!.
Since you have left the place try to get something which might make you happy!.!.and don't worry on what others say or do!.!.as if they do such keep it in mind that you're still the smartest one against them!.!.
Cheers!Www@QuestionHome@Com