Destiny vs Make It Happen?

Question: Destiny vs Make It Happen!?

Let's imagine there is something you want or someone you want to be with!. Should you A) Wait for destiny and fate to make it happen because only then will you know it's right or B) Take a chance yourself, go out of your way, and help it to happen!.

Which is better!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

life is what you make it there is no destiny!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think life is a balance between fate and fight!. Its no big philosophy, all I am saying there are some things in your circle of influence (some which you can influence) and some not!. Fight for those which are you in your circle of influence and treat the rest of them as fate and dont worry about them!.

Sometimes we are not sure whether we can really do something about something!. It usually happens in relationships!. And there is no clear boundaries to tell you when to stop, it all comes down with experience!. But if you know what you want clearly, then you dont have to worry anything about fate!. If you ever wonder about fate when you want something, then chances are high that you dont need that or you dont want it 100%!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Friend!.!.!.!.*sigh*

Destiny and fate are man-made reasons not to act!. It falls under the same line as "God's will"!. It isn't real, but it achieves laziness!. If you want something done, go do it!Www@QuestionHome@Com

No matter what you do, you can say it was fate, or destiny!. Both A and B could be described as fate or destiny!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I do what I think is moral and right!. If it's not a moral situation then I go get it!Www@QuestionHome@Com