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Question: What are the main reasons why we are sometimes 'unhappy'!?
What are your own reason why you are sometimes 'unhappy'!?

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We get unhappy because we compare ourselves with others!. We might be very satisfied at having a large roasted drumstick but if we look at the person beside us who has an even larger and more yummy looking one, then we get unhappy because we think that we could have gotten a nicer one but yet we didn't!.

We also get unhappy because of the high expectations we have of ourselves!. We set unrealistic goals and didn't put in the effort that it takes to reach that goal and so when we failed, we blame everything, the cosmics, ourselves!. This makes us unhappy!. when we don't get what we want!.

I think if we are satisfied with what we already have (it's difficult I know), then we'll be happy with ourselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

When people no longer care about truth and I feel the reality of living in Sodom and Gomorrah!.

As I suffer as there is nowhere to call "home" until in God's presence!.

I hate my life in this world!.

When a woman tries to lead or parent me!.

When it's becoming more of a woman's world and there is'nt much for a man to conquer behind 4 walls or a cubicle!.

When the majority vote votes in sin and wickedness!.

When 2 Timothy 3 is reality!.

When the gov!. tries to say I'm a # when I'm not, nor ever will be, but a name in the Lamb's Book Of Life!.

When I walk several blocks to a Burger King 24hr drive-thru window at midnight when my car is'nt running and they tell me I cannot order unless I'm in a car!. Lol!. That happened last night!.

When people are oversuspicious of everyone else and paranoid because they watch tv!.

When a teacher at my daughters' school is a lil too "friendly" with her!.

When I see gay rights parading in Jerusalem!.
And when they hand the Pope condoms as a mockery of God's will!.

When I tell someone I love them and they look at me suspiciously obviously deceived into believing that sex is love or that love is conditional!.

When I see people hurting or dying or deceived!.

When I still can't just leave everything and just walk the earth by faith alone, just yet!.

When i study prophecy or aspects of good and evil too much and run into the grim reality every so often!.

When I speak the truth in love and expose the lie and pray and intercede for peole and the world and sometimes come against spiritual wickedness and principalities in high places and then that tormenting spirit comes around trying to hinder and condemn me and has several times tried to silence me!. Well but actually that only makes me even more bolder/LOUDER, hehe!.

When it comes to the point when we have not much else left but to preach "REPENT! For the kingdom of God is near"!.

When people get mad cuz I wrote a novel on here and that I don't know when to shut up, lol!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Most common reason could be 'unfulfilled desires'!.

Then there are many other reasons all stemming from our attachment to this life and our loved ones!.

Strange you asked this question today when I'm feeling particularly unsettled because of my mother's illness, about which there's nothing we can do and that's what is making me unhappy and directionless!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Most of the unhappiness that I feel comes from being a victim of circumstances!. In the past several years, I have been victimized by several social service agencies due to a battle with people of high society!. What has hurt the most was an assault on my character!.!.!.a hearsay document that was passed through many hands and I didn't know about until I called for a state investigation!. You shouldn't be able to put a document in a state folder with only hearsay information that you do illegal drugs and have a mental disorder! I would have gladly been tested at any time they wished, but they preferred to say nothing of it!. Now I am watching a mother die with vascular dementia!. At the same time I've found out that the people that I thought were my friends are not around anymore!. Realizing the way the real world usually works can take from your happiness!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I almost asked this same question myself this morning !!! I was wondering, too !!!! But I resolved the BIGGEST reason is UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS !

I also have a large biological family whereby I have lost two siblings to death (one of whom, a sister, that I was VERY close to) and I have no real contact with the remaining members!. So!. !. !. !.that's a downer, too!. I know it and I know it causes a lot of unhappiness in me!. I have to try to keep a "cheery" face on, though, for my husband's sake!. I don't want him to be depressed over the way MY family acts!. It's NOT his fault and it's NOT his problem !Www@QuestionHome@Com

When you say unhappy doesn't mean we're sad!.If we are not good it does not mean we are bad!.To accurately answer your question we are unhappy because we are not happy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

We're unhappy because we want things that are not, instead of accepting things as they are!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Because sometimes I fail to understand others !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

A lot of times I am unhappy beacuse I compare my life to others lives around me!. I think theirs is better than mine and I want what they SEEM to have!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hormones, bad news in the media/in our lives, just not feeling well!. Lots of things!.!. hope it gets better for you!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

life is hard!.!. and its easier to not deal with issues!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Cause of lame questions on Yahoo! answers!. Zing!Www@QuestionHome@Com