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Question: Do you think you love the things you love for what they are!?
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Unconditional love is not only possible, it's the only kind of love!. Anything you would not love someone for is transitory and an illusion!. We are all perfect Sons of God!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, for the sentiment I attach to them!.

For this reason I do not get attached to material objects!.

One of the main objections I have is that they invariably take me out of the "NOW"!.
If it is an object of the past it will bring my attention to the past!.
If it is an object attached to the future, again, my attention will go to the future!.

Now if it is pleasant, I will be wishing my life away anticipating that moment, event, meeting, etc!.
If it is unpleasant, I will be dreading my life away thinking of that event , thing, meeting, etc!.

Either one will rob me of the "NOW", because of the sentiment I attach to things+

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R, that should be the case under normal conditions; and in some circumstances love 'd be extended for what they 'd become later!. 4 Ex: I love my daughter in law for what she is now ( my son's wife), and for what she is going to be later (the mother of my grand child)Www@QuestionHome@Com

I love the things I love because of what they are, I don't just love something because I have to or I am forced to!. I love them for what they are and in being what they are, they make me feel a certain way that I like!. Therefore I love them for what they are!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hell no, every relationship has 6 partners!.
Me to My ideal of you
Me to my delusions of grandeur
You to Your ideal of me
You to your delusions of grandeur
You to my ideal of you
Me to your ideal of me

Notice that Me to You is not on the list!.
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Actually this is what True or Real Love means!. Love is always unconditional; love with conditions or with Ifs and Buts are just like business deals!Www@QuestionHome@Com

if you don't do what you love,try to love what you do!.

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I do!. I love things and people the way they are and wouldn't want them to change at all!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!.

I love the PEOPLE I love for WHO they are!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Yes!. I'm not sure there's any other way!.!.!.BOKO!.Www@QuestionHome@Com