Do you sometimes feel neglected and forgotten?

Question: Do you sometimes feel neglected and forgotten!?

I have been neglecting many of my friends lately due to an excess of work and deadlines!. By the end of this month, this will change!. But how do I let them know they have not been forgotten!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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My dear, I do not feel neglected or forgotten by you!. I only feel the warmth of your heart as you do what you must, and visit when you can!. Don't forget, there are those of us here who love you no matter what!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Feeling Neglected and forgotten:
When a person gets caught up
and wound in their work,
there will be a tendency to forget
and neglect someone!.
This is not intended
as well as sometimes can't be controlled!.
There are a few things you can do though
In your spare time either email or phone them
saying things are hectic but I have not forgotten
you, as soon as I can free, lets get together
The other way is
if your friends live near you
visit with them when things wind down!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I only feel neglected and forgotten when I am being neglected and forgotten!. Fortunately, nearly everyone can relate to increased job pressures and responsibilities!. A simple note to your friends (or an email) is sufficient to let them know they are still in your thoughts even though your time is currently limited!. (The same consideration is valid for family members, as well)!. Face it,on some hopefully distant day we are going to have to die!. None of us will proclaim on that day that we wish we had spent more time at work, but lamenting that we wish we had spent more time telling those we love how important they are to us is a distinct possibility!. Well placed notes speak to this need!. Good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It has to be personalized; you have to say their name!. The minimum you should do is email them!. It doesn't take that long to put together a generic note that you could cut and paste and then add a quick line to the end and mention their name!. Doing that makes them feel needed!.in your life and that you care!. A phone call is a better choice for your closest friends!.

Your real friends will answer this by saying it's not necessary!.!.!. or posting like your doing here is fine, but it's really not!. People you really care about deserve a personalized message otherwise it becomes like bulk mail!. also if you were to post it like a question there is a chance only 15-20 people will read it, some would miss it and some of your newer contacts may not think it was meant for them!.

Some people don't have a family outside of here!. They look at this place as family!. Think what they might feel like if they never got an email from you!.!.!. If they really are your friends at least spend the 30 seconds to say that to each one!.!.!. and do it at least once and soon; for tomorrow it might be to late to say!.!.!.

" I appreciate your comments and I appreciate the time you've taken to read my poems, Lately I have been neglecting many of my friends due to an excess of work and deadlines!. By the end of this month, this will change!. I have not forgotten you!. You are very special Elaine!.!.!." !.!.!."from anybody"

If anyone here sent you that email tell me how it would make you feel!.

add: You don't have to do all at one time!.!.!. a few now and then is all you need do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Elaine, dear, the first thing you need to do is learn to forgive yourself!.
Women especially, joggle education, relationships, children, careers, volunteer work, maintaining the household and feel a little guilty at the end of the day in everything wasn't given equal time!.
I'm sure if you look at it from that point of view, you'll see the only area you've short changed is "your" time!.
Your friends understand and we enjoy your Wednesday's!.
I see a theme here!.!.!.Tuesday's with Morrie!.!.!.Wednesday's with Elaine!.!.!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

You must have read my mind!. I haven't talked to a "good" friend of mine for over a month!. I happened to glance at my calendar and noticed that it was her birthday!. I sent her a quick email and wished her a happy birthday; it didn't say more than "thinking about you and hoping you have a happy birthday!." She called me the next day and said she couldn't believe I even remembered her birthday and was glad to know that I was thinking of her!. So, I guess it really doesn't have to be a big gesture, just so long as they know you care and still wish them well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If family is not in tact, the older you get, the more you feel these feelings!.And true most everyone in school and in their prime are
living a fast pace in this era, most things are on the run!. Sad but true!.

A phone call I would think, to let them know your feelings, that in it self would pleasure me personally!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

let them know it like it is!. just be straightfoward, upfront and honest!.!.!. there's nothing to really be ashamed about here!. if they're your real friends, they would understand why!.!.!. and if they do happen to be angry about it, try to tease your way through, tell them you'll make it up to them, show them you care!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Shame on you!.!.!.

I would recommend "getting some serious churchin'!.!.!."

(Disclaimer: If you already HAVE been gettin' some "serious churchin'!.!.!."

!.!.!.I would recommend that you STOP getting some "serious churchin'!.!.!.)

The Law of Inverse Behavioral Human Nature!.!.!.thank you very much!.!.!.

And!.!.!.

I hope this helped!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Your other friends know you better than we!.They must know how busy you are and that you are involved in all kinds of things!.All our friends are as busy as we are, they too have obligations, family etc!.Just call and say hello, missed you!.Let's get to-gether soon!.Invite them for lunch!.I have a bunch of friends in about every three months for lunch!.We catch up on all our busy lives!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

pple comes, pple goes cos life always move on and never stops until death does u and me apart!.

forgotten and neglected are nothing to me compare to friends who bark and bites back deadly on me cos that's really hurtful!. e!.g!. lose a ricebowl of mine which broke by friends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Simple - you contact them and let them know that work has had your totally occupied and you don't want them to feel neglected!. Tell them you are not avoiding them!. Tell them life will return to normal soon!. Just be honest!. Friends and family understand!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes i do but now i have just gotten so used to it so it's not so bothersome for me anymore!.!.!.I know they have their own lives and it's hard for them to email" or call at times' but it's all good i guess !.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i never felt
but
one lady told 2 years before that she loves me and now she stoped talking to me now i am feeling lonely neglected and forgotten its great painWww@QuestionHome@Com

This happens to everyone , just tell the truth - only one phone call or an email will fix everything!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

You just did! We/they know you're busy, not to mention dealing with the loss of a friend!.
Please be available Monday the 6th for my virtual 40th birthday party!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Aww!.!. but if they were true friends they would be checking up on you to see if you are ok!.!.Friendship isnt a one way street!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You probably already have!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

A Short Text Message, or Better Yet, Phone call will Help!.!.!.!!

I Still Send Postcards to 'Keep in Touch'!.!.!.!.!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Simple as a e-mail or a quick phone call!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You just did! Now, phone the rest of them!.!.!.a morning delight of conversation!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I am old fashioned i love to mail a card!. It's a bit more expensive than it used to be ha!Www@QuestionHome@Com

everyone doesWww@QuestionHome@Com

Email them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Give my dog,Taz, a bath!. You gotta do what you gotta do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

you write them,this is older style of communicating but more near to heart!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well!.!.!.you could post more stuff on here and like Elysabeth said you could phone us!.!.!.
He he he!.!.!.!.I'm waiting for the phone to ring right now Elaine!.!.!.
or at least an E mail
He he he!.!.!.

Bare Hugs 2 U !!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

This is OUTRAGEOUS! You are just
so!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.kind!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

tell them!? lolWww@QuestionHome@Com