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Question: What do you do to make others feel at ease when you're talking to them!?
I find smiling, sometimes keeping a poker face, active listening and making eye contact make me feel good about the time spent in conversations with people!. What do you do to make people feel comfortable when chatting!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Making a silly joke about ones self really puts people at ease!. It doesn`t have to be self degrading though: overdoing it will astrage people even more!. Keep it light!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

*yawn*, it's getting late for me whenever it's late for me!.!.!.!.


Compliment hair, shoes, clothes!.!. complain about the weather, move to what you came together for!. When you talk to people, compliments first, then business!. Always!.

Holds true for most social bonding, as well!. Luck!.

I got complimented for holding a beat while dancing once!. It's memorable!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I look intently at one side of their face only, and twitch every now and then!.

Then after a random time, I just burst out laughing and nod my head vigorously, like they just cracked a really pertinent joke!.

Then when they ask me what I'm laughing at, I say "I honestly think you don't know how wise you really are!"Www@QuestionHome@Com

sincere compliments, i always say and mean it to the person am talking to before getting into the topic of the day!. yes active listening and focus on what the other person is trying to tell you!. be cautiuos with your language of speech!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

see who is the person, i am talking with!. meaning see pple and see pple talking!. sometimes it's enjoyable to play with word of mouth game haha!.!.!.even doggies so easily believed of what i said all the times!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I use humor to lighten the mood and soften the blow of some of the cynical things I say!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I am a bad listener, so i mostly talk to people to keep their information out!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

say what they will like to hear!.Www@QuestionHome@Com