What is the method of living happy life?

Question: What is the method of living happy life!?
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Living in the present and getting rid of desire!. Future brings fear and anxiety, while past leads to sadness and guilt!. Now is where the happiness is to be found!. All the discontent is from desire, a feeling that you are missing something- you have everything you need to be happy within you already!.
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Depends on your definition of happy!. You can just take every ones' word for it, but how does that help you!? It doesn't!. It helps them!.

Live for yourself first!. And everything else second!.
I am not saying be greedy, arrogant, and selfish!. No!. This is the basic tool of survival!. Live for yourself!.

Or live for a group!. This is the second tool of survival!. Live with a group of people and help each other as a community!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Good morning sister
great question

1 can you give me the name of a single person in human histroy which had not gone through sorrows and pain in there life!?

2 till there is human life there will always be happiness with misery,what we had to do is to maximize the pleasure and had to minimize the pain!.

3 a if there will be no fool humans in this world what will be the value of intelligent humans,there will be no difference,so foolish humans are also necessary!.
b if there will be no ugly things in this world what value will be left of the beauty,there will be no difference!.
c in the same way if there will be no pain,no misery than what value of happiness will be left,than you will not feel happiness,so misery is necessary for happiness!.

4 Dont became victim of circumstances became master of circumstances,became master of the pain and problems and solve them as a student solve maths problem!.

" Misery and pain became beautiful if once face them bravely and defeat them"
Aristotle

dont you think if there will be happiness all the times,than life will became boaring,misery and pain make us powerful,bring us ability to fight in this world!.

How you can get happiness my sister following are methods for living a Hppy life

1 Dont love a person so much
attachment is the biggest cause of pain,so never get attach with a person or a thing so much emotionally,that will give you pain,if you love a boy and tomorrow he will left you how much pain you will feel,so neither hate anyone not get so much attachment with any person in your life,both are harmful,i love a girl very much and she betrayed me and i was in deepression for 1 year
do time pass
my sister is mbbs student and she always do time pass with boys,she had a boyfreind and he is time pass,she is not serious at all,that can be harmful,so sister enjoy life,dont get attachment so much with a person!.

2 Love yourself
" love yourself as much as anybody you can love in the entire Universe"
Buddha
and in reality also a perosn love himself or herself only,if a mother love his son and there are some desires attach with her son,that he will became a doctor etc and will take me to a beautiful home and when tomorrow the boy get her out of home than mother will hate her,so she not love the son,she love the desires that are attach with the son,so a human love only the desires that are attach with other humans,
!.
one day ashoka and his wife were doing meditation
ashoka ask" whom you love the most in this world"
his wife says" i had done meditation and i had found that i love myself"
ashoka also said i love myself only!.

so sister dolly love yourself first and never do such actions which could be harmful for you!.

3 Dont be too Honest
" a person should be honest but not too much because straight trees cut first and honest people screwed first"
kautilya
dolly you know that this world is full of cheaters and clever humans so we should also be clever ,so we not get cheated by other humans,
we should never do wrong to anyperson and should never get cheated also!.we should be clever and wise not so much honest(sidha)

"Honesty is the best policy" this is a wrong quotation in this practical world!.
" notice that when wind came the stiffest trees crack down while the bamboo survive"
Bruce lee
so make yourself bold ,strong and powerful to survive in this cruel world!.

4 Please do SUN MEDITATION it is my request sister
earlier i also live in depression and misery all the times,but than i started doing sun meditation
we had to concentrate on the rising sun daily on the first day for 10 seconds its benefits are
1 my mental strength had increases
2 my all mental and physical diseases are gone!.
3 i feel as powerful as lion
4 i feel less hungry
it can also make a person non eater and can also lead to englightment
so it is my request please search sun gazing on google!.

" human being is author of his own misery and diseases"
buddha

so sister you had to remove all your misery by yourself no other person of this world not even god will help you,you can only help yourself

god bless you sister and will give you,power,beauty and knowledge,happiness
all the best for the future
love and blessings form vaibhavWww@QuestionHome@Com

Acting towards your greatest good at all times - all things considered!.

Some of your time will be spent simply trying to understand your greatest good!. Some of the time will be trial and error!.

Genuine satisfaction in life comes from discovering your greatest good and then moving toward that with undefiled intent!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Having your children think your God and everything you
say is the absolute Best and only answer!

No arguments, and no fuss!. Being Loved and Appreciated
and everyone remmembering to show you this!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Accepting things that cannot be changed and commiting yourself to worthy causes that can invoke change!. It also helps to know whether the change in question is "good change" or "bad change," because they are not the same thing!Www@QuestionHome@Com

G Use the life decryption key!.
If you have a real desire and more integrity than most, and want to learn about it, email me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Start every day off by reading the Bible and a prayer/talk with God in the Christ's holy name!.
Works well for this old dog!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.having no expectations, enjoy all that LIFE IS in the moment and always say thank you!.!.!.
!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Trying to not make your whole life experience "self-serving!."Www@QuestionHome@Com

Waking up in the morning and thinking "Hey,Good Start!"Www@QuestionHome@Com