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Question: Can you enjoy somebody's sexuality without having sexual intentions toward them!?
In the same way that you can enjoy someone's intelligence, or kind heart, or even their beauty without necessarily having any intentions toward them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Enjoy" is too engaging of a word if you have no intentions toward them!. Perhaps "appreciate" is a better word!. And yes it is even possible to appreciate the sexual nature of members of the same sex, for instance, without having to think of yourself as gay!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'd say I enjoy homosexuality without being a homosexual!. (I think if we want to get lewd here we could say that straight men often enjoy lesbian sexuality)!.

I enjoy their sexuality for another reason, though!. That is that it upsets people so much!. I think it's amazing that 'who is doing who' is such a concern of people, especially people who aren't jealous (maybe) of the relationship!. They don't wish they could be dating that man, they just don't want to see that man date who he wants!.

And I suppose I could say that I enjoy other peoples happiness, which can be seen as enjoying their sexuality in a sense (though a very loose sense)!.

But yeah, I love gays cause the religious don't (to be flippant about it)!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Can one enjoy a ballet without having danced ballet!?

Can one enjoy a great work of art without ever having created such!?

Only the jealous and the egotist seek to possess rather than to free the other!.

Perhaps it is wiser to allow all that is to be that which it is without judgment or the desire to possess it!.

May you be well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.i have both female and male co workers!.!.!.
!.!.!.truly its the females i enjoy!.!.!.
!.!.!.thats a fine line of sexual innuedos in the work center and things may be taken out of context!.!.!.
!.!.!.so, i wait !.!.!.and we link up at the club!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Certainly!.!. the term coined for these situations is "admiration!." You can admire without desire to partake in anything!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!.Www@QuestionHome@Com