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Question: Is a man with a low sex drive the equivalent of a ugly girl!?
I had an injury last month that has pretty much left me with a dysfunctioning testicle and the testosterone of a 80 year old(I am 28)
As I am slowly getting used to this, but not that easily, I am beginning to realize how useless I am to women, the only thing I can compare this to is being an ugly female
yes we can both get treatment such as I can get testosterone therapy and she can get plastic surgery, but deep down we know we are lying to ourselves and it isnt our real selves
ehh whateverWww@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
It's too much of a generalization to say you're useless to a women because of your situation!. It's not to say sex isn't important in relationships, but I would argue that it's not the most important thing in any good relationship!.
Everything I could tell you would sound very generic!. Looks aren't everything, sex isn't everything, etc, etc!. Hopefully you can find a way to work it out!. But having a low sex drive wouldn't make you useless at all!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Hello----
If you feel your worth is predicated upon the bit of tissue between your legs--- and you are 28YO--- then your maturity is questionable-- at best---
If prescribed--Get the physical therapy [testosterone] and at the same time go to counseling
to improve your feelings of self worth!.
If you are drawn to females that judge you by your sexual worth---change your brand of women---- perhaps they are losers---
what ugly girls!?!?!?!?!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
First off, I just need to say that some ugly girls are terrific lovers!. You shouldn't judge people by their looks!.
You should go for the therapy!. It is you!. Are you just going to sit around and mope all day about your flaccid penis!? You are just hitting your height, man! Get on it and get on her!
You can still have a fabulous relationship!. It's alright to grieve, but the longer you stay there, the harder it will be to get out!
JWww@QuestionHome@Com
Go to a doctor!. Your medical problem is not accurate!. A good urologist (specialist) can work wonders for you!.
You are being unkind when you compare your problems to that of a n ugly girl!.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
I know you probably know this already, but a relationship isn't all about sex!. And some women don't like it much anyway!. If they only want you for that, they're really not worth bothering with!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
ugly girls have been getting sex since they were young because that's
the only way they could get attention;hey,why you picking on the ugly
girls anyhow,they have enough problems as it isWww@QuestionHome@Com
Aha, a yes/no question!. No!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
!.!.!.no, just an individual who has other things on his mind!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
some girls dont even like sex that much!.!.!. so!.!.!. find one of those!Www@QuestionHome@Com
Wow!. That's harsh!.
I think you could have certainly worded that differently!.
Why are you useless!?
Does that mean you were only good for sex before!?
There are things you can do to improve your sex drive!.
Talk to an herbalist!. There are herbal extracts which are said to improve sex drive!. I'd do a little research on it as well, since herbal extracts are not regulated!. If you don't feel like going to the trouble, try incorporating adult toys into your lovemaking!.
Sex and looks are not all that makes up a person!.
It is a shallow way of viewing a human life!.
Find a way of getting around this issue!. There are ways!.
Talk to your doctors, consult with herbalists and do your research!.
And for God's sake- lay off the "ugly" girls!.
Looks or lack thereof do not qualify a person to be worth something or worth nothing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com