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Question: POLL: How loved are you in your life !? !?
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Not a great deal!. I live alone, my family (who do love me) are scattered afar, I have no partner (girlfriend) at present, and very few friends!.

However, I am the happiest I have been in years, because I am finally learning to love myself, and discover faith in myself, which I did not have for many years!. I am quite self sufficient, and do not need the love of others to feed my ego, though I do like to have respect from those I interact with!.

The only love I really yearn for is that of my "soul mate", if such a person exists!. As time goes by I would like to settle down with someone, reproduce, and start to build a little nest/ empire/ family!. It doesn't make me too sad that this is not happening, as I would not really have been an attractive proposition for those many years of self searching mentioned above!. I now have faith that good things are coming my way, so I don't worry!.

Despite all the hatred out there, and despite not being a religious man, I really do try to "love my neighbours" and to "do unto others"!. I think it is not within me to be a mean person, so it is not hard to try to love and forgive those who wrong me!. I am interested in making the world better for one and all, not simply lining my own pockets at the expense of others!. I know that if I spread enough love, it will come back to me!.

Take care!.!.!.

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Well now, it depends on the level of love to which you are referring!?

For example, we can ask 'am I loved in my work', and that type of love is different to the question 'how much do my children love me'!. So your question is too broad to make such a generalisation 'how loved are you IN YOUR LIFE', coz YOUR LIFE can be very small and personal, or huge when you consider your contribution to society :)

Or perhaps that's the trick, and you're testing people to see which type of love people talk about when they answer!.

So, I can't answer, coz I never really ask myself the question, it's not an important issue for me!. As far as I'm concerned I get more out of giving love than receiving it!.!.!.for now at least ;)Www@QuestionHome@Com

I really did not mean to answer your question as I find the matter far too personal and private!. I do not think that I can ever ascertain if I am being loved and how much is that love!. I think I can never say that I am not being love!. How would I know!? Love I believe comes in various guises, in its various strange and wonderful forms!. Sometimes, we fail recognise love, sometime it take us years to realise how much love was there in our life, how loving people have been, while some other times we find out in an instant!. This is a matte far too delicate and sensitive to be put in words, as for the moment I took my eyes away to search for right words, I might lose a chance; I might overlook a beat of my waiting heart!.

I have chosen to answer your question merely by the reason that you have bothered to ask!. I feel that there is some genuine touch of care in this, to which as you can see many people have responded!. This is great to blend thoughts of love with thoughts of care!. It is great to light moment of waiting with the light of hope, to keep faith!.
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Well, we can never no because you can never tell what someone is thinking/feeling!. I think im loved a lot!. I'm not really close to my family as they are arseholes, but im really close to my friends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I can not tell you how loved I feel in my life, I can only tell you I feel the love of those close to me, even i they do not say they love me I know they do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

not much!. i feel it is a great tragedy not to be loved!. more than that, to be understood is a much greater need!. if that need is fulfilled, your need for love is fulfilled!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

In my life i'm sure loads of people love me and loads hate me!.
Sometimes i feel people don't love me after an argument but in the end it turns out they don't hate me at all!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have a big family with lots of nieces and nephews, and loved by all, i,m very lucky, xxWww@QuestionHome@Com

could be better
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i barly get to talk to my
bf because of army
reasons *sigh*
when hes home tho im
so happy =]
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I am told that 'in a world obsessed with youth and beauty you make a refreshing change Big D'

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very loved and very luckyWww@QuestionHome@Com

I suppose I'm quite loved, my boyfriend tells me all the time I just don't hear it that often from my Family!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Very Loved by Family & Friends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I thank God every day for my family and friends that love me!. I am very fortunate!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

The Love of God is 100%!.
All other love is temporary, acting, limited etc!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not very!.One person,mom,would care if I lived or died!.Not anyone else!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I can't believe she is so devoted!. I am one lucky guy!.
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I am very much well loved by my family and friends!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not much at all I don't think - even my boyfriend wont say he loves me - yet!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

surrounded by love!.!.blessed indeed!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The love I feel can't be measured but I will say it is geniuneWww@QuestionHome@Com

Im beating people off with a stick im that loved :DWww@QuestionHome@Com

A LOT, Sky and Back!.Lol!. (((Hugs)))Www@QuestionHome@Com

no one has ever said that to me!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com