Help on deciding things which characteristic of a loving person can be omitted?

Question: Help on deciding things which characteristic of a loving person can be omitted!?

There are basically four characteristics of a loving person: understanding, respectful, responsible and self-disciplined!. But the thing is, I have to omit one!. Please help me decide!.

Tell a good reason/explanation why did you want to omit this characteristic!. Please don't say "none" or "all of them"!. I really just need your opinions!. Thank you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

I think if anything I could let go of self-disciplined!. If they are understanding and respectful and responsible(it would come with the package but) I'm sure they will listen enough to learn some discipline if they actually are a loving person!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Omit them all!.
Not all "loving" persons need have any or all of those characteristics!.
The reason is because it is a fallacy to state that a loving person must have those characteristics because of the definition of the word loving!.
There is only one characteristic, having love for or showing love for, that is it!.
I know you ask me not to say "all of them" but here look for yourself what I mean
http://dictionary!.reference!.com/browse/l!.!.!.
So, what can I say, everybody is entitled to their own opinion but not to their own facts!.Www@QuestionHome@Com