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Question: My parents exploite me and Love my SISTER,what should i do!?i am a philosophy Honors student,they dont like it!?
when i was of 1 month till 10 class i live with my grand mother and grand father in a town
my parents are rich doctors, after my 10 class i started living with my parents
my sister is doing mbbs medical studies,so they were hally with it!.
they love her,they give her huge pocket money,she go from one place to another place with plane,she go college by car
they also want that i should became doctor,but i not follow me
i love philosophy,i am doing philosophy honors from india no 1 college st stephan,
they dont like me,they beat me on small things,they not give me pocket money or money for books,i go to college by cycle it is 14 km from my home,they not give me money for bus fare
my mother hate me,she talk me in ruff language all the times
my mother add water in my milk!.
i love my grand mother and grand father,i really miss them,they were my real parents!.
i am in depression,what should i do,my parents abuse me a lot mentally and physically,i cant able to do studies!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
1!. Find a way to earn your own money!.
2!. Since you are old enough to be in college, you are old enough to begin finding a way to live and not depend on your parents or grandparents!. If an American college student said his/her mother waters their milk, listeners would be shocked that you could not find a way to buy your own milk!. also a scooter!.
3!. Why do you allow your parents to beat you!? Before I got old enough to attend college if my parent had attempted to use violence against me I would surely have defended myself in such a way as to discourage any further attempts!.
4!. I realize India is a different culture than USA, but you need to grow up, take charge of your life, get away from your parents and grandparents, become a sovereign human being, as in "adult"!.
5!. Mental abuse only works if you are weak!. If someone tries to give you something and you don't take it, who has it!? Practice not reacting emotionally to their words!. Just see their mouths opening and closing, noise coming out, means nothing to you!. Take away their power by not reacting!. Be objective!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
1) Cut the umbilical cord, you are not a baby anymore!.
2) Do not give in to what they want, because love should not be conditional!.
3) Learn to be independent!.
4) Find a nice girlfriend!.
5) Go start your own family and treat your kids the way that you would like to be treated!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
get a job!.!.then move out when ur financially stable!. if ur that depressed and desperate to do what you want to do!.!. you will learn how to cope with studies and work and livingWww@QuestionHome@Com
If your not happy at home, and things are just not as you would want them!.!.!.!.!.do what I did!.!.!.!.!.!.MOVE OUT!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
My friend, you have to, I repeat YOU HAVE TO follow your head and your heart!. If that means cutting an emotional cord with mom & pops, so be it!. My father was a Dentist, I began my studies with a medical profession in the future but although I was very good with my hands and probably would have made a good Dentist it was not in my heart!. I went into visual arts much to both my parents dismay!. I graduated Summa *** Laude but never received so much as a pat on the back, but I pursued my dreams and worked my life into what I wanted!. It wasn't until I was married and had grand children that this void was closed, I choose to close it!.
It maybe time to find a place to live that stops the mental and physical abuse, wouldn't you say!? Good luck, sorry bout not following your point by point format but it's not meWww@QuestionHome@Com