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Question: Have you ever repeated the same gestures during different relationships!.!.!.!?
(like walking on the same alley you used to walk with a previous partner, saying the same things) out of some strange tendency to mix stories together!.!.!. to live an old story through a new one!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Calling out another womans name while making love!. lol
I am conscious of it, terms of endearment can catch me out!.
I don't think it can be helped, as fresh & new as everything is, I guess yes one still is perhaps chasing the parts of an old story through a new one!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, sadly I have!.

I have given two boyfriends antique pocket watches as gifts!. Mainly because I think they are beautiful gifts and I love "The Gift of the Maji"!. But I felt a little tacky about it!.

I also used a significant song from a former relationship as a song at my wedding!. also tacky!. My husband even busted me on it because he knew the story : )

I think I did these things due to a lack of creativity on my part!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

*thenks* not reallay!. i mean, the onlee theng i cen thenk of that ive repeated is how i liek sex an that has more to do weth me then other people, i thenk all the poeple ive dated know what its leik to date me an for me to love them, but i cent thenk that ive repeated myself! i mean, its not liek love is soem game were u repeat ur moves ?Www@QuestionHome@Com

no!.!.i really try not to do that!.!.because it's so!.!.!.!.
Ackward!.!.
( i guess that's the closest word i can think of )

a new relationship is a new beginning!.!.
not to sound so superstitious!.!.but if a relationship has failed & ended in the past!.!.
why would i want to repeat the same gestures !.!.!?!?
:)Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have repeated the same gestures during different relationships, but not in an attempt to mix stories together!. It is because those gestures are apart of who I am, rather then creating the ideal of what I want the relationship to be!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, I'd never intentionally repeat the same gestures with someone else!. I might walk down the same alley, but with someone new it would feel new rather than familiar!.

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=Ym0x3vTw6!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

like alot of people, I can't remember what my past relationships and I did anyway, so it's still new to me and they don't know the difference!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.though, live an old story through a new one, is my modus operandi!.!.!.
!.!.!.lol, I know the drill and its the sex that is unique!.!.!.
!.!.!.yet, they get up and leave!.!.!.im okay with that!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

ive only had two decent girlfriends, so i dont have much to go by, but i probably wouldve done, given more time with each of them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

~gestures are my demeanor!.!.!.only change was the frequentcy of sex and different personal favors & demands~Www@QuestionHome@Com

HECK NO! That is why the old ones are history! The past is gone, and don't want to think about the ex's anymore!.

Thanks for reading!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

going down the same road as i had with someone else is the thing that happens to me once too often!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Never!. But maybe I will give it a try!. I should have quite a repertoireWww@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, that is called baggage!. =)Www@QuestionHome@Com

I once called a girlfriend my ex-girlfriend's name once!. Does that count!?Www@QuestionHome@Com