Which are easier for you to count... the things you can relate with or the thing

Question: Which are easier for you to count!.!.!. the things you can relate with or the thing you cannot stand!?
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If you are focusing on the things you can not stand, then you can actually stand them, or you wouldn't be focusing on them!. If it is easier for you to count the things you can relate to, than you are a lucky individual and should be grateful-- you are connected, and it it is connection that provides a degree of hapiness!. If it is easier for you to count the things you can not stand, then you are a pessimist!. If your focus is there then your life will look pretty bleak!.
I like to count the things I can relate with, but counting the things I can not stand is a trap, which has snared me before!. Once I realized I was snared in a trap of pessimism, A great light was lit, and I began to gnaw myself out!. Even if I lost a limb, I'd still be better off, because, when you are snared, you are immobile!. You can't move forward, until you release yourself!. Once you are free, you have a choice!. If you travel the woods where traps are likely set, you may become snared again, but if you travel on well lit paths, your future is much brighter;)Www@QuestionHome@Com

i don't give my time to things that i detest!. i will always find wonder in the things that i like and the things i have yet to discover!.-blureyWww@QuestionHome@Com

Great question!. The answer is, it's almost a tie, with being able to relate slightly ahead!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The things I can relate with, it's been a life long journey that I chose to take!. And damn, it has been so hard!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I find both annoying and good parts in my life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The things that i cannot stand!. I don't know whyWww@QuestionHome@Com

Does it really matter!? Will it make a difference to the quality of your life!?Www@QuestionHome@Com