Which are the little things which usually put you... in check-mate?

Question: Which are the little things which usually put you!.!.!. in check-mate!?
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letting people in to close!.!.!.not guarding the walls to my heart too strongly or more so smartly!.!.!. allowing myself to believe when i know i shouldn't!.!.!. to let my thoughts go to a place which is unknown to me!.!.!. letting others impact my decisions and my life!.!.!. letting people know me so well that i have no defenses left!.!.!.that's where i lose the game =)!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Present little concerns if not attended to immediately can be very irritating in time and some have even put me in check mate!. The sooner I treat a mole hill as a mountain and begin to find a solution I will be the one to say check-mate to the problem!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Believing in the good of the people around me-looking for the person I am in others!. Hence my circle is small and my wounds have been deep!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Queen to King's bishop seven!.
Your move!.

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=Eb4xbvMCC!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The little things are pawns!.

But they rarely put me in check-mate because they're little!.

What gets me in trouble are the big things!.!.!.

!.!.!.!.like my ego!. ;-)Www@QuestionHome@Com