How can I fill this void in my heart?

Question: How can I fill this void in my heart!?

In my life, I have the opportunity to be anything I want!. If I want to be a doctor I can become one, If I want to be an astronaught I can become one, I can be anything if I work hard enough and if I want it badly enough!. I know this for a fact!. But the only thing I want from life is the only thing I have absolutly no control over; love!. Love is all I want and it is the one thing I am not sure if I will ever get no matter how badly I want it!. Who knew that emptiness could be so heavy!? How can I feel complete without having a significant other!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

First of all I request you to read this poem:-

"DAFFODILS"
By William Wordsworth (1770-1850)!.

I WANDER'D lonely as a cloud

That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,

A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze!.
Continuous as the stars that shine

And twinkle on the Milky Way,
They stretch'd in never-ending line

Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance!.
The waves beside them danced; but they

Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:
A poet could not but be gay,

In such a jocund company:
I gazed -- and gazed -- but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:
For oft, when on my couch I lie

In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye

Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils!.

Life my dear friend is a huge dimension of space in an endless dimension of time and you dear are the witness of your space for sometime in this eternal time!. When you look at the big canvas, you see the gardens that you like and also experience the empty spaces between the gardens(the love experiences) of your life!. The gardens are beautiful and you seek them time and again but the empty spaces are a reality too!. We get so much over-awed by the gardens that we seek them again and again forgetting that the empty spaces also have to be travelled through by us!. The empty spaces are not so empty!. They have their daffodils!. Love like daffodils is also bound by time and space and never forget beauty and love lie in the eyes of the beholder!. My only advice is that while you seek the gardens don't miss out on the daffodils or to go a little further, they are infact within you!. Love fully all existence, the gardens and the empty spaces, and the void shall be filled!.

Seek within!.
love and best wishes for you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's important to remember that you can't expect someone else to fill a void in your life!. If you believe that that will help you become whole you will never feel good about yourself!.

Once you realize that you are beautiful with or without another person by your side you will let go off your urges to complete yourself through other people!. Then you will find yourself carefree and open to the world and that is when you can search for love without the fear of failing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Look!. For love to work it takes two of you and not one!. So look at this void as a time to improve yourself in the way you want to improve in your interest in life, your hobby, your career, spiritual, philosophical, political views!. Whatver Grow yourself!. That way you can be true to yourself!. In the end the one you meet can meet the real you!.

Afterwards if there are parts of yourself that you are willing to forsake for him, then you can change then!. But at least improve and grow and invest in yourself!. That way you are using your life and time wisely!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Why exactly can't you be in love!? Include those details!.

There's enough love for everyone to go around!. I'm sure there is a man out there who's exactly (well almost exactly haha) what you want!. I'm sure he'll be handsome, funny, and will cherish you!. Don't sit around and wait for it to happen acting lonely!. It will never come that way!. Right now focus on yourself and achieving those dreams!. Spend time with friends and family, get a pet, go out more and you won't feel so lonely and you know you can have someone to love!. Focus on those people you already care about!. Care for yourself and care for others then someone will care for you!.

Moping will get you nowhere!. Believe me!Www@QuestionHome@Com

say [ i love my self ] 10,000 time till you believe it!.

there is a chakra by your chest , this is like a flower!.

find something you really like and try to love it!.!.

the chakra will open like a flower

and it will close again
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keep doing this till you get control of it so it will stay open longer and longer!.
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my heart chakra is usually closed but i love others, but not so much my self!.
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there is [no void] the chakra is just closedWww@QuestionHome@Com

love can be fulfilled without necessarly having a mate!. it can be filled with love for needy children, that give you love in return with their bright smiles!. or love for animals that give you love in the from of loyalty in return!. love with a significant other feels no stronger than any other types of love!. so explore your loving side!Www@QuestionHome@Com

By giving your life to Jesus, it's the only thing that has worked for me, before him, I felt empty, bitter, and sad!. Now I feel happy and loved and that my life has meaning!.

Before anyone bashes my answer, think about it, having someone up there love you SOOO much that they would die for you (and all of humanity) just to be able to be with you and make you happy (and all of us), now THAT'S what I call love!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The Love you get is equal to the Love you give!. Although there is a problem with scheduling!. Sometimes it seems like all you do is give!. So you just have to be patient!. There's a catch as well!. If you give solely to receive it doesn't count!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Luna~
You can never truly find love!. It will find you, once you a) stop looking and b) love yourself 1st!.
I found unconditional love and it's meaning when I met the creator of Love itself!. Answer the door & let Him in!.
Good luck, God bless!. Love you!Www@QuestionHome@Com

You first have to design a significant SELF for a significant other can recognize you!. Remember no one else can shape
YOU but YOU!. Get busy girl you have been in a void all over!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Work towards what will make you worthy of love!. Be the person who engenders love from those around you!. Engage in a dialogue within yourself which seeks to fulfill the promise that knowledge shall grow into wisdom!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Love your job!.Www@QuestionHome@Com