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Question: How i can became SELFISH HUMAN BEING!? i am very innocent,my SISTER betrayed me and insulted me in whole family
i am 20 year old boy vaibhav
my sister had betrayed me,she tell my most important secrets to my parents,i trust her,and my parents beat me with belts!.
i know her many secrets but i not told a single to my parents!.i will never talk to my sister whole life,she had betrayed my trust,she had also insulted me,i got a bad name in whole family
now i had taken a pledge
1!. i will be selfish human being,i will love myself,i will take care myself,i have to do nothing with any of my relative,i will never love anyone,i wil love myself
i pray to god,oh god give me strenght so i can increase my mental and physical capacities and can get strenght
does i had taken a great decision!? advice me more,how i can became selfish
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10 jesus love all,please give me serious answers and suggestions,if any one can give answer in detail than please give me answer in detail!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
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Hiya!. I am sorry to hear such a sad story - betrayals are really hard to swallow!.
I am not surprised that you have made this decision and all decisions are good for the moment - It is bitterness that makes us say -forever - try saying for now - until I decide otherwise-
You do not know what life will bring yet and bitterness as an energy can only take you so far!.
I totally love your idea to love yourself htta sounds so good - How can we love nother if we dont know self love!?
I think it depends what selfish means to oyu - if it is neutral and just mens paying attention to oyur self first then fine if it means treading on others - I don't think that is a good idea!.
also love doesnt respect outside or inside and if oyu dont give the love that you have to give for others you will end up pretty emotionally constipated!.
I dont usually liek these numbers but just for you-lol!.
1!. Love myself with all my heart and put myself my thoughts feelings my wants into every equation!.
2!.Minutely look at your process in the day try to become aware of yourself in themoment!.
3 savour the beautiful moments of the days and learn from the most taxing experiences!.
4!. Stay with an innocent mind push away bitterness which is inwardly and outwardly corrosive - and protect yourself
from harm in the way that leaves all parties free to be themselves!.
5!. Take your power make your own decisions and dont let anyone else push their reality on to oyu - look at each piece of reality as it comes toward soyu adn decide what parts of it to believe or not!.
6!. Be glad each day that you are not like your abusers - You do not betray or beat others they have to carry all that poison around with them !.
7!. Find out what simple things make you happy and give them to oyurself!.
8/ Look for others who are free of guilt and blame - people who are playful o good with children are more likely to be good companions!.
9!. Have compassion for others - we are all flawed and who knows why we act as we do so unintelligently choosing drama over love!.
10!. Go easy on yourself see this as temporary when you have got stronger you amy want to change any of your decisions!. life is process - it changes constantly you have to be versatile to bend or fly with the wind or you'll break
good luck!Www@QuestionHome@Com
Youre very angry!.!.!.!.this will pass !
* forget what was done and said
* don't do it again
* learn to laugh at yourself
* remember in life all things constantly change
* One day you have to hold that spoon to
feed your Belt Wielding Parent !
And get someone to explain to them this is Australia
If people don't like our way of life !?!?!?!? Why be here !?!?!?!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
1!. Take care of yourself, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually!.
2!. Be focused in your goals!.
3!. Set realistic goals!.
4!. Love God!.
5!. Love others as you are strong and able to love Self!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
1 i advice you to learn better grammer
2 dont tell your sister any more secretsWww@QuestionHome@Com
*Oh, Erin, I liked your answer, but it's ADVISE, not advice!. Grammar check 2!. :o)*
And, yeah, take your pledge and become a selfish, cold-hearted person and live a miserable existence!. Or don't tell your sister any more secrets; then get a job and move out of your parents' home!. And God can give you strength, but consider this: is He gonna zap you with strength or give you opportunities to develop strength!? Be careful what you wish for, really!. When I was young I used to pray for patience, all the time!. And then my youngest son was diagnosed as Bipolar!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
1!. love yourself
2!. love other people as yourself
3!. forgive yourself for doing wrong - if you do good, there will be bo secret!.
4!. forgive your sister - let her go and you'll be free from the burden of remember what she did to you and then remind that you did wrong first !
5!. Pray and ask god to show you the way, not pray to tell god follow YOUR way!. That's not nice to god!.
6!. seriously, there is only the beginning stage of your life, you'll encounter more fun and challenge in future!. You'll be very successful if you could seriouly consider my first 5 points and act upon them!.
7!. god love you and peace be with you !Www@QuestionHome@Com