How much you rely on others telling you everything will be ok...?

Question: How much you rely on others telling you everything will be ok!.!.!.!?

when you need to feel safe!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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They only make me feel worse because I know that they are only speaking these words when the times are the hardest for me!.!.!.

It's like when a child gets hurt and you ask me "Are you okay! You're bleeding!!!"
Words like those allow us to realize moments that we subconsciously try to deter!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not at all!.
I'm a realist!. Not an optimist, not a pessimist, a realist!.
The glass is neither half full or half empty, it's half, that's it!.
So if someone tells me "everything's gonna be ok", and I know it's not, their words mean nothing!. They do not fall on deaf ears, because I know they're trying to comfort me and I take that into consideration, but I know that there words are just comfort words not truth!. I usually know when "everything's gonna be ok", and if it is I accept it, if it isn't I accept that as well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I actually dislike those words, 'Everything will be ok', which people utter almost mindlessly/mechanically, without knowing the machanics involved!.!.!.like telling it to a Terminally ill patient!. Try asking them how!? and they have nothing more to say!

If those magic words are preceded with some solid/useful/time-tested advice or suggestion, then they do carry weight and elicit hope!. Otherwise they are mere hollow words!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If people I trust tell me that they think everything will be OK it does make me feel a little better (not that I necessarily think they are right, just that I know they aren't just saying so for the sake of staying positive)!.

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=oPgt7ZWtM!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

When I'm scared of something, but I'm from Bosnia and survived the war there so I'm kinda thought to feel safe even when it's not so safe!. So, I don't need often that people convince me that everything is going to be OK!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Nice link Dragon
I don't know how soothing this is, nice chorus :)

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=VTQp7MER_!.!.!.

I rely on it more than I know & I know others who do rely on it, so I say it!. Everything will be OK
*hug!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not at all!. It's a loud of rubbish and a trite cliche!. Life sucks and you make your own decisions and your own luck!. If I was upset and someone said "everything will be ok" I'd likely resort to physical violence!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

i do not rely on them at all!. how do they know its going to be okay!? they dont!. i prefer to rely on myslef to make it better!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.this is a comfort to me if the situation is grievous, otherwise, I don't really "need" to hear these words over and over to feel safeWww@QuestionHome@Com

Study the man first before depending
Safe only when you know all about the othersWww@QuestionHome@Com

when i want to reaffirm my belief!. and i want to make sure that it's not just me that things everything will be ok!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't!. I think it's just part of being an adult and finding security in yourself rather than others!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have 100% faith in hearing that from my friends!.!.!.

!.!.!. especially in P&S :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Whenever I get hurt, I contact my friends so they make me feel betterWww@QuestionHome@Com