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Question: If you feel like a failure!?
how do you get over that!? it seems like no matter how hard i try at life, no matter how much effort i put into it, i feel like such a failure in every aspect!. i put my whole heart into what i do, my marriage, my kids, my religion, self improvement, health, relationships, being kind to people, etc!. and so much of the time i feel like i get back negative results!. more negative than positive results!. how do i turn things around!? how do i have a better attitude!? how do i keep from feeling like such a failure!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
First let me tell you this!.
You can find peace within yourself!. You will find peace within yourself!.
You deserve to be at peace!.
The answer is contained in your question, but you don't see it!.
You are trying too hard!.
You are trying too hard because, deep down, you don't expect to succeed!.
Tell me if this feels right, OK!? Underneath it all, you expect to fail!. Failure is built into your belief system about yourself!.
It is your core belief about yourself which is causing the world to react to you the way it is!.
Luckily, the only thing we can change in this world is our own thoughts!.
If you need help in changing your attitude try Attitudinal Healing!.
Attitudinal Healing was designed to help ease the mind of children that are dying of cancer, but it works for anybody!.
All help is given freely!.
I wish you well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
It might be because you don't see it as a success, from a perspective from always looking at a failure even if there is a little success doesn't that little success make up for the large failure!? What ever you do you will always see some failure in what ever you do but you have to start looking at the successes to actually know what your hard work had done!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Yes shes right we all have to do like king David, and give us the pep talk and keep moving on!. I am sure things well get better, this too shall pass, nothing is constant but change!. also it sounds like your putting your hopes in the things you do rather than GOD, look to the hills my help comes from the Lord, and if you think your life is a mess try reading Ecclesiastics, now that made me laugh, or even mine! my husband and are newly weds and live in separate houses, plus he is a ex******* with other troubles can't tell all you know! but imagine what I am feeling now, but my hope is in the Lord and if my man does not get right!! I"LL get rid of his A** if he does not first smileWww@QuestionHome@Com
Ur attitude is the way to turn things around!.
How shud u have a better attitude!? Simple!. IF u truly felt like u did ur hardest to balance everythin' in ur life, then u shudn't feel guilty or like a failure cuz there was nothing MORE that u cuda done since u've gave it ur all!.
So look at this phase in ur life!. Pick out what u learned the most from this period in time, and treasure it so then when u face another relationship, etc!. u can apply wat u learned and use it!.
ALways look on the bright side of life!.!.!.theres always good and bad, never one!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
First of all you definitely are not a failure! When i feel down about myself I sit down and HONESTLY count my many blessings!. Please don't look down on your self!. You are a child of the universe ( and God don't make no junk )!. I am very concerned about the way that you seem to be feeling!. Please let me know that you are alright!. Sincerely, Michael C!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Belief!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
The belief you can do it is needed!.
You are just you!. Not others!. Do not compare you with others!.
God cannot make humans useless!.
God make humans necessary!.
Cheer up! Without failure, human cannot get anything!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
I am with you on that one!. I wish I knew but honestly I just dont!. For me at the moment its just a case of getting on with it and hoping that things will turn around for me!. Let me know if you find something that works! :-)
ps keep your chin up xxxWww@QuestionHome@Com
Perhaps you are trying too hard!? It sounds like you have high standards!. Enjoy what you're doing at the moment, try not to think about past failures or future successes!. Go easy on yourself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
I dunno but from what i c u sound like a pretty fantastic person fitting in everything like that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
just tll your self that your a great person you know like a lil peptalk =]Www@QuestionHome@Com