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Position:Home>Genealogy> My mom passed away 6 years ago...?Question: My mom passed away 6 years ago!.!.!.!? my mother passed away when i was 13 years old in a car accident!.!. and i still feel like i never got over it!. whenever i think of her the only thing i think of is her in her coffin!.!.!. and i HATE that, but i cant help it!.!.!. this really sucks i just want to be with her again!.!. she was like my best friend we were very close!.!.!. please helpWww@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Meggie, I'm so sorry about your mom!. I know that leaves such a void in your life!. The reason you keep remembering her in her coffin is because you were very young and it had a terribly devastating impact on you!. It was the last way you saw your mother, so that's the image that's going to pop into your head all the time!. That image will always be there, but there is a way you can put it toward the back of your mind so it won't pop in your head so quickly!. From now on, whenever that image pops into your head, do not dwell on it, don't keep thinking about it, quickly force your brain to think of a fun time you had with her!. Think of a time she said something silly or a time you both went shopping together!. If you keep forcing yourself to remember the fun and goofy times with your mom!.!.!.eventually, that coffin image will take a back seat in your head and the good stuff will pop in your head instead!. You DO know that her being in the coffin was only her body!.!.!.!.her soul and the very essence of her is in heaven keeping an eye on you right now!. So try to find peace with that image if you can!.!.!.because it wasn't actually HER that you saw!.!.!.she had already found her way to heaven by then!. How do I know all this!?!?!? My daughter passed away in 2006 in a car accident!.!.!.we were also best friends!. I can feel where your comming from and this is how I've been able to deal with it better!. You'll be ok sweetie, it's all still very fresh in your mind!. Be sure to make yourself replace that image with a good thought/image of the two of you and eventually it will get a little better!. Please email me if you ever want to!.!.I'll be happy to try to help you though stuff!.Www@QuestionHome@Com it's very hard to lose someone so close at such a young age!.your relation ship was severed in life and you feel unfulled!. she is still with you and wan'ts you to do well and so do i!. say a little prayer when your thinking of her!. she knows your hurting and will help you find the right path have faith it will help!.Www@QuestionHome@Com I'm sorry to here your story but she lives on through you and you will find happiness again, I'm sure your friends are worried about you, they may not even know how u r feeling so talk to them or people in similar situations!. You were the most precious thing in her life so she would want u to be happy!. xWww@QuestionHome@Com http://www!.childrenofdome!.com/Weep!.html http://www!.ziplo!.com/Pennies!.html just thought these may help a little im very sorry for your loss!.!.!.is there anyone you can talk to about this!? you were very young when this happened and im sure that was extremely devistating for you!. it would probably do you some good to talk with family friends or even a docWww@QuestionHome@Com I would take out old photos of her and remember the happy times together!. Family photos with you and her!. It may be painful at first but if you have another family member to do this with it will help remember her in another way!. Hope you feel better!.Www@QuestionHome@Com aww i feel for you! i wud be devastated if my mother passed away! hope things get better for you!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com |