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Question:I have always been interested in my family genealogy, but have not idea where to start. My maiden name is very unusual and my father really doesn't no much about his family, so I would love to know where we originate from.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I have always been interested in my family genealogy, but have not idea where to start. My maiden name is very unusual and my father really doesn't no much about his family, so I would love to know where we originate from.

Pick one or the other, dear. The best meal in town isn't at Denny's, and the best way to explore your family history isn't cheap. Don't they teach you youngsters ANYTHING in school any more? Standards have certainly gone downhill since I was carrying my lunch in a tin box with Roy Rogers on the lid. I had to walk, too. It was six miles uphill, both ways.

Here is my standard answer. It means research on your part. All but one of the links are free. 99% of the people who ask your question lose interest when we tell them it is work, but we (we top 8) keep trying.


This is a text file I paste to questions like yours. People ask similar questions 3 - 14 times a day here. You get a long, detailed answer, I don't get finger cramps. It is long because there are over 400,000 free genealogy sites.

It is also long because researching your family tree is as hard as writing a term paper in a History class. You don't have to be a rocket scientist, but you won't do it with five clicks. I could tell you everything I know in 30 minutes, but not 3. The fact you have to do research stops nine out of ten teens and many adults.

If you didn't mention a country, we can't tell if you are in the USA, UK, Canada or Australia. I'm in the USA and my links are for it. If you are not, please edit your question to add a country. Or, better yet, delete it and ask again, this time putting inthe country. Genealogists from the UK answer posts here too. They are more experienced and more intelligent than I am. I'm better looking and my jokes are better.

The really good stuff is in your parents' and grandparents' memories. No web site is going to tell you how your great grandparents decorated the Christmas tree with ornaments cut from tin foil during the depression, how Great Uncle Elmer wooed his wife with a banjo, or how Uncle John paid his way through college in the 1960's by smuggling herbs. Talk to your living relatives before it is too late.

You won't find living people on genealogy sites. Don't look for yourself or your parents.

So much for the warnings. Here are some links. These are large and free. Many of them have subtle ads for Ancestry.com in them - ads that ask for a name, then offer a trial subscription. Watch out for those advertisements.

If you try the links and don't find anyone, go to

http://www.tedpack.org/yagenlinks.html

It repeats each link, but it has a whole paragraph of tips and instructions for each one.


http://www.cyndislist.com
Cyndi's List has over 250,000 sites.

http://www.familysearch.org/Eng/Search/f...
The Mormon's mega-site.

http://worldconnect.genealogy.rootsweb.c...
RootsWeb World Connect. The links at the top are advertisements. They mislead beginners. Ignore them and scroll down.

http://www.rootsweb.com/
RootsWeb Home.
This is the biggest free (genealogy) site in the world.

http://www.ancestry.com
Ancestry has some free data and some you have to pay for.

http://www.usgenweb.net
US Gen Web. Click on a state. Find a link that says "County".

http://www.ancestry.com/learn/facts/defa...
Surname meanings and origins, one of Ancestry's free pages.

http://ssdi.genealogy.rootsweb.com/cgi-b...
Social Security Death Index. Click on "Advanced". Women are under their married names. They are under their maiden names in most other sites.

http://find.person.superpages.com/
USA Phone book, for looking up distant cousins.

http://vitals.rootsweb.com/ca/death/sear...
California Death Index, 1940 - 1997.

http://www.genforum.com
GenForum has surname, state and county boards.

http://boards.ancestry.com/
Ancestry has surname, state and county boards too. They are free.

Read
http://www.tedpack.org/goodpost.html
before you post on either one.

Read the paragraphs about query boards on
http://www.tedpack.org/yagenlinks.html
before you search them.

http://searches.rootsweb.com/cgi-bin/lis...
Roots Web Mailing List Archives.

Read
http://www.tedpack.org/maillist.html
if genealogy mailing lists are new to you.

Off the Internet, some public libraries have census image subscriptions. Many Family History Centers do too. FHC's are small rooms in Mormon churches. They welcome anyone interested in genealogy, not just fellow Mormons. They have resources on CD's and volunteers who are friendly. They don't try to convert you; in fact, they don't mention their religion unless you ask a question about it.

PS - There is a small difference between "know" and "no", and a huge one between "the computer" and "the Internet".

Pedantically yours,

T

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  • You can start with http://www.familysearch.org/Eng/Search/f...

    keep in mind that many of the facts on this website are unconfirmed, so it is very important to look on the website for the source given for each record they mention. If it is a historical document, it will say so. If it is "submitted by a church member," or anything other than a census record or a parish church record, you can use it to try to find a historical record in that vicinity (ie, go on www.rootsweb.com and near the bottom of the page there is a Locality link, which will allow you to find a message board for any county or country in the world - go to the board and ask if anyone can look for a record to match the info you have) .

    Rootsweb also has a message board section for specific surnames. If you can find a message board for your surname, you can post requests for help there.

    If you'd like to send me your maiden name, I can look it up in some of the databases I subscribe to.

    There are lots of good websites but you must use them carefully.

    Don't take as absolute fact everything you see in family trees on ANY website, free or paid. The information is subscriber submitted and mostly not documented or poorly documented. You might see different information on the same people from different subscribers. Then you will see repeatedly the same information from different subscribers on the same people That is no guarantee at all that it is correct.
    A lot of people copy without verifying. Use the information as CLUES as to where to get the documentation.

    I think Ancestry.Com is the best for its records. Your public library might have a subscription to it you can use. They have all the U. S. censuses through 1930. The 1940 and later are not available to the public yet. They have U.K. censuses also.

    Rootsweb and FamilySearch.org are the best 2 free sites as they give excellent instructions in genealogy.

    A Family History Center at a Latter Day Saints(Mormon) Church has records on people all over the world. They are free to use but you should find out their hours for the general public. In Salt Lake City, they have the world's largest genealogical collection. Their Family History Centers can order microfilm for you to view at a nominal fee.

    I have never had them to try and convert me or send their missionaries by to ring my doorbell. I haven't heard of them doing that to anyone else either.

    But first you should start with your living family, particularly your senior members. Tape them if they will let you. They might be confused on some things but what might seem to be insignificant story telling might turn out to be very significant. Genealogy websites usually will not have information on living people due to identity theft.

    Find out if family has any old family bibles.
    Ask to see and make copies of birth, marriage and death certificates. They have useful information like the names of both parents including mother's maiden name and the death certificate will have their places of birth in most cases. Also for some religions, baptismal, first communion,confirmation and marriage certificates contain a wealth of information.

    While you are at your library and the Family History Center, you will probably have an excellent opportunity to talk with other researchers. Others ideas and experiences is how most people learn.