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Question:born in Scarborough Ont. Named Michele Zaleski. Mom was unwed and only15 kept me for 3mths.Really need medical info if anything


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: born in Scarborough Ont. Named Michele Zaleski. Mom was unwed and only15 kept me for 3mths.Really need medical info if anything
Start at the beginning.

Go back to the adoption agency you were adopted out of. They have the correct process that you will need to get started finding your birthmother. Most will tell you that you have to file a petition with the court and the adoption agency will act as a mediator but the court has to approve that. Once approved, the mediator agency will then do a search for your birthmother based on the information they have in their original adoption records (including your original birth certificate).

If they find her, they will ask if she wants contact with you. If she doesn't, then they will ask her for a medical statement, erase all the vital information such as your mom's name, address, birthdate, etc and give you the rest of her medical information.

Check with an attorney (most are free for the first 30 minutes) to make sure or check with the adoption agency you were adopted out of to find out what the true and correct process is.
think about who you can talk to find out your birth cerificate there are two and both of them sould say your moms name start with that and pray. I dont want to hurt your feeling if she dones't want you to know where she is its gonna be harder to find her
Its considered unethical to post information in relation to any living person on any Internet forum, sorry.
You could try www.zabasearch.com or http://www.gov-files.com/public_record_s...
my friend had amazing results with the latter one.
Hope this helps.