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Question: Have you ever had a date that couldn't dance!.!.!.!?
What did you think of him/her!?
I got asked out to a dance at my high school!. The thing is!.!.!. I don't know how to dance!. I'm pretty stiff and when I actually do dance I'm usually just fooling around!. Any advice!? What do you think my date will think!?
Any input is appreciated, thanks (:Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Most high schoolers prefer it if their date dances badly as opposed to sitting on the wall the whole time!. Just cut loose and have fun; if you look around, you'll notice that most everyone looks a little goofy when they dance!.

No need to be worried!. Be confident!. And use one pelvic thrust per song (it's a rule)!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well it depends on how important dancing is in that persons life!. I know I dance all the time and if I dated someone that truly couldn't dance either I would be itching to dance or my partner would be bored being dragged to dances he couldn't participate in!. So I would end up dating men probably that are good dancers, have danced but didnt persue it, or a man that is willing to learn despite never dancing!. Eventually I would find a man that couldn't or wouldn't learn to dance annoying and probably end up just being friends!. Its just like someone with allergies wouldn't date a cat person!. So one ask yourself are you really a bad dancer or just need some lessons!. Secondly ask how important is dancing to this person!. Take some dance lessons its good for the soul!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

im a guy and guys dont care, they are generally more worried about themselves, he asked you out so hes gotta like you a little, just do what you normally, only a jerk would think any less of you and I dont think this guy is a jerk

Think about this:
If he couldn't dance what would you think of him!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

My boyfriend doesn't dance and I do!. I've actually almost broken up with him over it!. He will start taking lessons this week to save the relationship!.

High school kids are cruel you should try to get a few lessons in prior to the dance, It could haunt you forever!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Eh I don't care if my date cant dance or not!. As long as he's having a good time and being himself and not being awkward I could care less!. i can barely dance I usually just make up my own moves!. I can dance a lil but not very much!.!.!.!. If you date really likes u he/she shouldnt care if you can dance or not!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I once went to a dance with a friend and ended up hooking up with another girl there!. She was really attractive but when we got up to dance, it ruined it for me as she was so bad and had no sense of rhythm at all it became like a turn off!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i tried dancing once and i got laughed at!. try it out, if your really bad, then just dance one song!. then it gives you something to laugh about later on in the date!. but just make sure you laugh at yourself!. theres nothing wrong with not knowing how to dance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

what u could do is try to atleast practice now!.!. and dont get nervous right away becaue you dont know yet if you're date knows how to dance as well!.!.
ask your friends if u have that know how to dance!.!. and you gotta be relax and be yourself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i did have a date that absolutely posituvely couldnt dance! but i supported him, and tried not to make him make a big fool of himself =D ask someone that knows how to dance! or even tell your date ;] its not that bad !.!.!. trust me!Www@QuestionHome@Com

i can't dance for shix!. At this party, this girl knew i can't dance, so she was just holding my hand, and we're just doing random stuff, which is a lot of fun!. And it made me feel so much freaking better!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i can't dance for ****!. just tell him you suck at dancing and when you get there just fool around like you always do!. it will be more fun that way anyway!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


just do the chicken danceWww@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah, me!. I am awesome!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

bella swanWww@QuestionHome@Com

Go up in the club really, really high !.!. and do yo thang!Www@QuestionHome@Com

if you really can't dance!. feel the beat, if its, 1 2 3 4!. then shift your weight from left foot on 1and 2 then on 3 your on the right foot,, 3, 4!.
but don't boob your head, its in the hip movement!. upper body, think off yourself like a roman god, lower body, get your groove on!.
kind of go,,,,left, left right right!.
you dont have to lift your feet much at all just like the heel is lifting, practice in the mirror to see if you are doing good!.
if you have to do a slow dance in 4/4 time
left foot straight, forward, (keep yourself no wider then your shoulder width in foot movement)
ok, so left foot straight forward, right foot forward then move left foot to right together,
then its right is back, left is back and bring right together!. very easy!.!.!. now also look on youtube!. and watch a basic dance step video!. its really easy once you get the hang of it!.
its very easy!. the girl will follow and mirror your moves!. practice!. look up things like fred astaire basic dance moves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

My current boyfriend is a terrible dancer, but for some reason it is kind of endearing!. He knows he's terrible, but he still does it if I want to do it, and that's what makes me love him and makes me forget about him stepping on my feet or having next-to-no rhythm on the dance floor!. He's so awkward it's kinda cute!. Maybe your date will find your subpar dancing skills charming as well!? Hehe!.Www@QuestionHome@Com