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Question: Why am i so stiff and shy when i dance!?
i want to learn how to dance!. when it comes to school dances i feel like im too shy or i am too stiff!. i want to learn how to,my boyfriend can even dance better than me!. prom is coming up this year,so any advice please!? :DWww@QuestionHome@Com


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try dancing in the privacy of your bedroom in front of a mirror this way you will know what looks right and whats just WRONG!.!. get your b/f to evaluate what he thinks you look best doing and remember if you do the funky chicken with confidence everyone will still think your coolWww@QuestionHome@Com

i used to have the same problem with dancing, it's all about confidence and self-awareness, here's a couple of tips i hope help you!.

1!. focus your attention on your partner
2!. don't over think your movements, just let the music do it's rhythmic work
3!. if you happen to slip a little, or step on someones toes, don't go into shame, laugh it off
4!. remember that nobody there is judging you, they are there to have FUN! they couldn't care less what you're doing!.

i hope this helps, and have fun at your promWww@QuestionHome@Com

You're stiff because you're shy!.

Have fun, just dance, don't care about what others think!. Make mistakes and learn from them!. If you make a mistake just smile and no one will notice you made a mistake!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Because you kept thinking about the negative side of dancing, just don't think about anything and enjoy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Because your probably white and everyone knows white people cant dance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah just don't think about it and its easy!. Really I don't think I have ever looked at girl and thought she looked bad dancing!. (just my opinion) Usually girls look good dance no matter what!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Dancing is supposed to be fun!. Just loosen up and don't worry about other people judging you!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Your probably self conciousWww@QuestionHome@Com

take dancing classes but you need to find how the music speaks to you!. I dance from my soul so try doing that!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

try practicing with him alone!. Then come the school dance you're ready!Www@QuestionHome@Com

dont think about what you're doing too much!. just get on that dancefloor and let ur body take over!. im sure you'll be fine!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

take a chill pillWww@QuestionHome@Com